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*SLAV£RY OF MEN BY WOMEN*

Every Man irrespective of who they are must read the book by a German writer Esther Villar In her book "The Manipulated Man"

This book has caused outrage and *hostile criticism* from women, it explains how women since the earliest times have manipulated men and turned them into their slaves, they have *pretended* to be the oppressed s.£¥ while in the real sense they are the oppressors.

She explains how a woman manipulates a man skillfully by steps like *courtship* and finally *marriage* , hence the saying “ *a man chases a woman until SHE catches him”* .

In her book she explains how the man is *tricked* to care for the woman all his life and her offspring.

He rolls the stone like *Sisyphus* and in turn gets rewarded by a few minutes of s£xual pleasure.

We can, by observing Esther Villars assertions that a man is a slave of his desires and the woman uses and has used it for thousands of years as a stick and carrot to keep the man chasing vanity and commit his life to serving her.

She goes ahead to explain the *rivalry of women* , how each woman feels the powerful urge and need to own a male for herself.

Like a *sl@ve owner* she detests any move the man would make to offer his services to another woman. She uses all means to keep the man to herself and her offspring alone.

Esther Villar's sentiments are captured by Nigerian Poet, critic and writer, Chinweizu Ibekwe in his book, “The Anatomy of Female Power” (AFP) and Will Farrel's, “The Predatory Female”.

They all push the theory that all societies are matriarchal and not patriarchal as we are pushed and forced to believe. *Matriarchy has ruled not through brawn but wits and tricks;* women feigning weakness to be protected etc. Thus the male becomes the most exploited s.£¥ in human history, (in wars the man is always ready to die for the woman; he has been trained to do that).

Chinweizu calls the idea of *dating* and *courtship* , *training*, like that of a horse. It is during this time that a woman having kept the man on a leash by denying him s.£¥ and getting him addicted to her by false charms, trains and breaks him to whatever she wants him to become.

The marriage celebration becomes a celebration for the *woman and her friends,* and they all congratulate her for having succeeded in getting herself a *slave* .

A man on that *wedding* day waves goodbye to his independence and his coalition of males and commits himself to a *Sisyphean* life, rolling the stone, an act he cannot abandon having *society* and the *government* checking on him and always ready to *jail* , *shame* or *exile* him for absconding his duties of slavery.

Thus the government and society helps the woman in keeping her *slave*(man) in check.

Chinweizu gives a narration of how women are trained by older matriarchs to *tame* men. He explains how a man is trained to rely on women by his own mother.

A man is *shamed for cooking* for himself and other domestic chores by his *own mother* who is an agent of the global matriarchal rule.

By getting the man to hate *domestic* works and having it enforced by culture which warns men against going into the kitchen, doing *laundry* etc.

The mother trains his son for the woman who will captivate him and when the time comes she takes hold of the man's stomach and by getting the man addicted to her body she holds him by the two, in *bed* and in the *kitchen* .

With those two weapons she manipulates the man and turns him into her plaything.

In the “Myth of the Male Power”, Esther Villar's “A Man's Right to the Other Woman”; “The Polygamous S£¥”, the authors of those books challenge the narrative that men oppress women, and by detailed research across African, Western and Eastern both in ancient and modern societies, the authors unravel the hidden power of the ruthless matriarchal power that rules the world.

Also Helen E. Fisher did anthropological research of ancient human societies and wrote the book "The S.£¥ Contract, The evolution of human behaviour" 1982. She too came to the conclusion that Marriage is a selfish creation of a Woman, where she uses s£¥ to manipulate a man to take care of her and her offspring. Other male animals do not carry the same burden and responsibility.

*Presidents* , *Emperors* and *Kings* are all puppets of the matriarchy forces that rule the World by pulling the strings from behind the curtains

A noble piece which is a must read for every Man under the globe...

The Woman Who Fakes Submission Will Eventually Resent Your Leadership
She called you “king.”
She said she was “old school.”
She even posted that viral quote about “being led by the right man.”
But now?
Everything you say is met with resistance.
Everything you do is picked apart.
Every decision becomes a debate.
Because she never submitted.
She just pretended to—long enough to secure your commitment.
Let’s break it down:
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1. She Didn’t Submit—She Strategized
She wasn’t following your lead.
She was following her plan.
She gave you softness until you gave her security.
She gave you obedience until you gave her access.
She gave you peace—until she got the position she wanted.
Now that the ring is on and the bills are paid?
The mask comes off.
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2. Submission Was Her Sales Pitch—Not Her Standard
A feminine voice.
A cooperative tone.
A little “yes, baby” energy.
It was all branding.
Because she knew that no high-value man leads a woman who fights him.
So she didn’t fight you—yet.
She just waited.
And once she felt safe enough?
She started correcting the man she once claimed to follow.
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3. Fake Submission Always Turns into Bitterness
Here’s the catch:
A woman who fakes submission will eventually hate the man she pretended to obey.
Why?
Because she was never aligned with the vision.
She just complied to survive.
And now that you’re leading the household?
She feels like a slave instead of a partner.
She feels controlled instead of cherished.
She feels bitter instead of bonded.
Because obedience without belief becomes resentment.
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4. She’ll Sabotage You—Just to Prove You’re Not Fit to Lead
She won’t outright rebel.
She’ll do it in subtle ways:
Withhold intimacy
Undermine you in front of the kids
Delay everything you ask for
Talk behind your back
Play the victim when you finally snap
And the most twisted part?
She’ll say, “I used to be so sweet… you changed me.”
No, queen.
You were never sweet.
You were just silent—until you thought you had power.
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5. You’ll Wake Up Leading a Woman Who Hates Following You
Now you can’t breathe without criticism.
You can’t guide without arguments.
You can’t protect without being told you’re “doing too much.”
And every time you try to restore order?
She accuses you of being “toxic,” “controlling,” or “narcissistic.”
But the truth is simple:
You’re not the problem.
She just never believed in your leadership in the first place.
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6. Real Submission Is Revealed Over Time—Not Promised at the Start
A woman can’t fake true alignment.
Not for long.
Because the pressure of life will always expose what the honeymoon phase covered.
You’ll see it in her tone.
Her attitude.
Her respect—or lack of it—when you disagree.
So be warned:
If her submission feels performative now,
Her rebellion will feel permanent later.
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Final Word:
The woman who fakes submission will eventually resent your leadership.
Not because you failed…
But because her ego can’t survive under your authority.
And the moment she feels “secure enough” to stop performing?
She’ll sabotage the very structure she once praised.
So don’t fall for fake softness.
Test for real alignment.
Because a woman who submits to get something
Will always rebel when she doesn’t get her way.
And by the time you realize her “submission” was just strategy?
You’ll be leading a woman who’s already planning your replacement.
— © Elonaires | Magnus Media

I’ve seen good men losê their women.

Not because they cheated.
Not because they were èvìĺ.
But because they were clueless.

Clueless about power.
Clueless about attraction.
Clueless about how women actually operate.

They thought:

“If I provide, she’ll stay.”
“If I’m loyal, she’ll love me.”
“If I’m a good man, I’ll be enough.”

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It’s not just enough.
Not if you’re bŕòķê
Not if you’re wèàk.
Not if you don’t know *the Game*.

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I wrote it out of heartbrèàķk.

I’ve watched men I care about become shadows of themselves.

Guys who once had confidence —Now asking, “Why doesn’t she respect me anymore?”

They don’t realize they’re playing a game…
But they never learned the rules.

So I wrote The Non-Rich Man’s Game.

Not for men who want to become billionaires.

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A lot of men don’t lack money.
They lack strategy.

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© Yvonne Funmi