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5 signs the woman that said Yes to you is still not Yet into you.

1. Fake YES!

She said Yes, you are happy, the relationship was suppose to start proper.
It has to start with constant communication and yet somehow whenever you call is always a bad time..

There is no butterflies in her belly yet bro, that Yes was a fake!

2. Always UNAVAILABLE.

If it is a close proximity relationship, as the man we will want to initiate dates and somehow she will always find a way to excuse herself from meeting you.
She will blame it on either work, or strict parents if she still lives with them.

3. UNINTERESTED..

A person who just said Yes to date someone will be interested in everything that concerns them but then there is the babe who doesn't randomly check on you to ask where you are and what you are doing.

4. UNNECESSARY BILLING.

Despite them not showing up or showing love, they will occasionally try to hit your soft spot for them and tax you for money at every chance they get.
Sometimes they do it often to put you off and sometimes they just do it because it is who they are, a User!.

5. ADDRESSES YOU AS A FRIEND.

There is nothing as crazy as a love interest you've done everything right for, and she is referring to you as a friend to her friends and even to the public.
It is a big red flag that they are just there to use you.

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HOW TO KNOW IF THE LOVE IS REAL

After reading the article I wrote that says 5 SIGNS THAT SOMEONE IS NOT INTO YOU a week ago, a concerned lady sent me a message seeking for counseling.

She told me that her guy loves her, gives her attention, has time for her, cares about her, communicates well with her and gives her lots of gifts and all of that but she's afraid if the love is real.

Consequently, she chatted me up asking me how she would know that the love is real.

I told her that I'm going to write on it so that other people can also benefit from it. In this article, you will learn how to know if the love is real or not.

When someone loves you, you know and you will feel it. There will be evidences to attest to it.

Below are some of the evidences...

✅ ATTENTION

When someone loves you, he or she will give you attention. We give attention to the things that we love.

✅ CARE

When someone loves you, they will care about your well-being. Anyone that doesn't care about your welfare does not love you.

✅ COMMUNICATION

When someone loves you, they will communicate often with you as much as possible. Hearing the voice of whom you love is a delight.

✅ GIVING

The natural outflow of love is giving. When someone loves you, they will give. It doesn't necessarily has to be money but there will be giving.

✅ SPENDING TIME TOGETHER

When someone loves you, they will desire and long to spend time with you. When you love someone, you will desire the presence of the person. Anyone that doesn't like spending time with you, may not love you.

✅ SACRIFICE

The ultimate prove of love is sacrifice. Love is not self-seeking. Love always spends itself at the expense of the beloved. Someone that is not going out of his way once in a while to make you feel good, may not love you. Love is sacrificial.

✅ PATIENCE

When someone loves you, they will patient with you. They will be patient with in your weaknesses, down time, etc.

✅ PROTECTION

When someone loves you, they

To whoever is reading this now:

Give yourself a compliment right now. Take pride in your advancements. Take pride in your strength as a person. Sometimes all it takes is to look in the mirror and be pleased with the person you have grown into. You succeeded; never forget that.

Sometimes all it takes is looking in the mirror to tell yourself that you are strong, deserving, and attractive.

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Dear ladies.
He might not say 'I love you' very often,
He might not get you surprise gift.
But
If he makes sure u are comfortable in life, getting everything you want, taking care of your needs, making sure you ate properly, you had good sleep, planning a future with you.
He madly Loves you..

Be patient & wait on someone that will love you consistently. Stop wasting your time on people who treat you good one day, then act like you don't exist the next day.

You deserve someone who always checks on you and makes you feel special, loved, beautiful, & appreciated everyday.

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You know why relationship don't last nowadays?

Everyone wants to be loved😍 unconditionally while carrying a bag full of conditions, high expectations topped up with pride and entitlement mentality.

Relationship is about giving from both partners...Your time, efforts, care, knowledge, wisdom, love, gift, cash, cuddles and etc.

If you can't give willingly... Just walk away.

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A man went for an interview in an oil
company. After the interview, the Boss &
the board members asked the man.
Boss; young man did you come
with a paper signed by a minister, a
senator or an army officer?
Man; the person that sent me
assured me that the job will be
given to me, And he has submitted the
paper before i came.
Boss; is he a minister?.
Man; He is above a minister.
Boss; is he a governor or
mr president??
Man; He is above mr president.
Boss; my friend are u alright?.
Now tell us who sent you before I get you
arrested now.
Man; Him that sent me, His Name is
Almighty God, the owner of everything,
both OIL & GAS.
There was a big silent everywhere
Boss.; young man u can
go. The man went home. After 2
weeks a letter of employment was sent to
the man with free
accommodation & a new prado
jeep for official use.
You that is reading this post if you believe
that God have signed your paper of
upliftment Pls give the Lord a big "THANK
YOU LORD"
GRACE Will Speak for You. What you do not desrve, God will give it to You even before the End of this Year! In JESUS Mighty Name! 🌹 God bless you as you share this to Encourage Someone follow me for more tips

A man and his wife traveled to a zoo. They found a monkey who was passionately playing wth his female. His wife said to him, "what a romantic couple!😍.

Then, they move forward and found lion and his lioness separated from each other; the silent lion sat alone in his corner as if the lioness did not exist. His wife then said to him " what a sad scene without love?! 😒

Her husband then said to her, "Throw that stone at the lioness and watch."
When she threw the stone at the Lioness, the lion roared to defend his lioness. Then they saw the monkey again and she did the same by throwing a stone; the monkey jumped up and abandoned his female to save his own skin.

Her husband then said to her "Do not be deceived by what you see as romance in some, often times it is deceiving appearance that hides an empty heart; there are others on the contrary who show nothing, but their hearts are full of sincere love."

Sadly we have so many monkeys, and so few Lions nowadays. 😢

MEN STOP DATING A LIABILITY!

1. A girl who doesn't have transport fare to visit someone that she claims she love. (liability)

2. A lady who can't get you birthday or valentine gift but expect you to bring down the world for her during hers.(liability)

3. Someone who can't comfortably call you on phone for 5 minutes.
Always flashing, complaining and requesting for data and airtime...(liability)

4. I wonder how some Men cope with ladies that think relationship is an occupation where she's supposed to be paid and taken care of??
(S*x is not a benefit to only men.). She might not even allow you have the s*x, yet you keep spending on her like government, kwantinue (liability)

5. Stop dating a liability no matter how beautiful she is. Beauty is a bonus, focus on her content!
Date a lady who can add something meaningful to your life.
Things like: financial intelligence, emotional intelligence, spiritual intelligence.

6. Date someone who's capable of managing multiplying whatever she has and the ones you give to her, your soul will be at peace!
Not someone that will always be at the receiving end.

7. I'm not saying she must be rich.
But let her have something doing no matter how little it is, because no matter how much money you make, she must be able to assist you during the rainy days...

I know ladies will come for me🤣🤣🥱

Date someone who is interested in you.

I don't mean someone who thinks you're cute or funny. I mean someone who wants to know every insignificant detail about you.
Someone who wants to read every word you write.
Someone who wants to hear every note of your favourite song, or watch every scene of your favourite movie.
Someone who wants to find every scar on your body, and learn where they came from.
Someone who wants to know your favourite brand of toothpaste, and which quotes resonate deep inside your bones when you hear them. there is a difference between attraction and interest. find the person who wants to learn every aspect of who you are.

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Dear Bachelor

TESTING A LADY

Sir, you don't need to use dirty clothes to test a lady to know if she's hardworking.

Even if she visits you and your house is well arranged, everywhere sparkling clean, a hard working lady will still show herself.

A hard working lady shows herself in her work ethics, how she takes care of herself and her own space and how she handles the responsibilities she has in church, office, home, etc.

A Submissive Lady doesn't need you to be bossy and difficult before she'll show her submission, submission doesn't respond to being bossy, if you like be a gentle and meek man, a submissive woman will still submit to you.

A rebellious or stubborn lady will still show herself, even if you are gentle with her. Character doesn't hide if you know how to look.

A Lady who can manage can manage, even if you give her N50,000, she'll show her management skills, it's not only by testing her with N500 or poverty that you'll know if she can manage.

Want to know a Good wife Material?

1) Check the Friends she Keeps.

Lions walk with Lions.

Dogs walk with Dogs.

2) Check Her Mentors and Role Models.

An apple doesn't fall far form the tree.

3) Observe/Listen.

How she talks/relates to you and others,

How she talks about Authority and Superiors

How she handles money issues

How she reacts when under pressure.

Her ideologies about Love, Marriage, Men, Women, Life, etc

4) Her devotion to her God.

And most importantly PRAY.

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9 BEST WISDOM AS I BEGAN TO LOVE MYSELF

1. As I began to love myself I found that anguish and emotional suffering are only warning signs that I was living against my own truth.
Today, I know, this is “AUTHENTICITY”.

2. As I began to love myself I understood how much it can offend somebody if I try to force my desires on this person, even though I knew the time was not right and the person was not ready for it, and even though this person was me.
Today I call it “RESPECT”.

3. As I began to love myself I stopped craving for a different life, and I could see that everything that surrounded me was inviting me to grow.
Today I call it “MATURITY”.

4. As I began to love myself I understood that at any circumstance, I am in the right place at the right time, and everything happens at the exactly right moment. So I could be calm.
Today I call it “SELF-CONFIDENCE”.

5. As I began to love myself I quit stealing my own time, and I stopped designing huge projects for the future. Today, I only do what brings me joy and happiness, things I love to do and that make my heart cheer, and I do them in my own way and in my own rhythm.
Today I call it “SIMPLICITY”.

6. As I began to love myself I freed myself of anything that is no good for my health – food, people, things, situations, and everything that drew me down and away from myself. At first I called this attitude a healthy egoism.
Today I know it is “LOVE OF ONESELF”.

7. As I began to love myself I quit trying to always be right, and ever since I was wrong less of the time. Today I discovered that is “MODESTY”.

8. As I began to love myself I refused to go on living in the past and worrying about the future. Now, I only live for the moment, where everything is happening.
Today I live each day, day by day, and I call it “FULFILLMENT”.

9. As I began to love myself I recognized that my mind can disturb me and it can make me sick. But as I connected it to my heart, my mind became a valuable ally.
Today I call this conn