Emily

DON'T COME TOMORROW AND STARTED CRYING!!!

Don't deceive yourself young Lady!

You see the signs but you ignore it, because you want to get married.

If you ignore the signs today, please don't come tomorrow and started crying.

1) Don't Marry a Man who doesn't take God serious.

He doesn't even go to church, or he goes once in a month, doesn't even pay his tithe, doesn't have respect for Pastors, even talks bad about them, and make fun of them, he doesn't place any importance on prayer, or the word..

And you feel safe to introduce him to your parents? 🤔

Please don't come tomorrow and started crying!!

A Man who doesn't take his maker serious,is it you he will take serious? 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

2) Don't Marry a Man who doesn't listen to anybody.

You can already see that he is a Man of his own, anything he says is final, nobody can change his mind, even his pastor and his entire kinsmen put together can't make him change a decision, and you want to manage him? 🤔 Hmmm! Thinking he will change, okay now. General Manager and CEO of Husband Management Worldwide, continue 🚶🏼‍♀️🚶🏼‍♀️

Don't just come tomorrow and started crying!!

3) Don't marry a Man who doesn't take Correction, who lives by his own codes and ideologies alone.

He doesn't even appreciate being corrected in the first place, but because you want to get marred this year, you ignore.

After all, every man has his own flaws, so you say, forgetting that a Man with a weakness who doesn't take corrections is no longer WEAK but WICKED..

Sister, please don't come tomorrow and started crying!

4) He has addictive and destructive habits.

He smokes, He drinks, He parties, he gambles (I heard of a Man that gambled with his wife as the bet)

A man's lifestyle and habits will always affect his Marriage. Always. Remember this!

If you ignore this, please, don't come tomorrow and started crying.

5) He keeps very funny friends.

His best friends, one is call scorpion, the other is call razor..And they call him Scar.
And you are not afraid?

His friends change women like wrapper, and you think he doesn't do and he won't do same to you?

His friends will be the ones he goes to meet for advice on how to run your relationship and marriage anytime he needs advice, and this doesn't scare you?

They say "a mirror shows the reflection of a man's face, but his choice of friends show the reflection of his heart."

Please, don't come tomorrow and started crying.
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The cub lion that is pampered and ignored today will become the adult Lion that CANNOT be ignored tomorrow.

My Sisters, look before you Leap.

Wedding is a day.

Marriage is for a lifetime.

Marry Well.

God bless you 😊

.....S*X!!!!!!!!!!!!!!.....
One of the greatest headaches of many young
ladies in relationship is the issue of s*x. While
they find themselves entangled in love, they also
would not want to offend God by fornicating.
Meanwhile, most young men of today are always
demanding s*x before marriage as a proof of
love. If a lady denies her boyfriend (fiance) s*x,
he tends to think she either does not love him or
she is seeing another guy. And this throws the
lady into so much confusion. She genuinely loves
the guy but wouldn't want to give in to s*x. If
she denies him, she may lose him and if she gives
in too she disobeys God. Sorry to our ladies.
Gentleman, please know that it is absolutely a lie
from the pit of hell that if your fiancee does not
give you s*x it shows she doesn't love you. How
can you use s*x as a LOVEOMETRE? Have you
never slept with ladies you didn't truly love? If
you haven't then let me tell you that many people
are having s*x with people they never love. And
the men are themselves the worst culprits.
If s*x is a proof of love then we have to conclude
that prostitutes love all the men they sleep with.
If s*x is a proof of love then we have to go about
sleeping with our best friends and even family
members to show how deeply we love them.
Even married couples, do not have s*x to prove
their love. They rather have s*x because s*x is
part of marriage and it is meant for both
procreation and recreation - child birth and
enjoyment. Don't you know that there are married
couples who are not genuinely in love but they
still have s*x as a matter of duty or just for
cover-ups?
Surely, s*x plays a major role in love affairs. But
Eccl 3:1 says, "For everything there is a
season..." It is never the right season to have s*x
in a relationship. This is because s*x is a blood
covenant between husband and wife not boyfriend
and girlfriend. Gen. 4:1 says, "Adam knew his
wife". It does not say "Adam knew his girlfriend".
Stop going that far with the lady. If you want to
know about a woman's love for you s*x is never
the answer. Leave her alone to serve God right for
your own sake if you truly want to marry her.
Song of Songs 2:7 says, "I charge you, O
daughters of Jerusalem, by the gazelle...that you
AWAKEN NOT LOVE UNTIL IT IS TIME".
The gazelle is a very swift animal. It runs at least
96 km per hour. Bible compares romance to the
gazelle. If you start romance at the wrong time
you may crush because you will not be able to
stop it from running your life at top speed. So
until you are married, don't AWAKEN LOVE. S*x
has been the main reason for most broken hearts
and disappointments.
S*x is called love-making because it involves the
body, soul and spirit. Do you want your soul and
spirit to be tied to somebody who is not married
to you? Can you stand the consequences, Mr.
Young Man? Hear the Bible:
"O my son, O son of my womb, O son of my vows,
DO NOT SPEND YOUR STRENGTH ON WOMEN,
YOUR VIGOUR ON THOSE WHO DESTROY
KINGS." (Prov. 31:2)
S*x before marriage can destroy you, even your
Christian life. The funny thing is some
Brothers in Christ even worry the
Sisters in Christ for s*x. So God says, "My
son...son of my vow". You are a son of God so
don't waste your energy on women. You should
rather be teaching her chastity and help her serve
God well.
Seeking love from s*x is like looking for Jesus in
an empty tomb.(Word) Take it easy. When you marry
you will be fed up with s*x. Your wife will be
chasing you with it and you will be running away,
saying, "Oh I'm tired, why?". Take time okay, Wait patiently. It will soon be laid at
your doorstep and you will notice how stupid it is
to chase s*x when you are not married.
If you want a woman to prove her love to you,
allow her some space to be herself. Do not force
your will on her or control her. Her love, by
nature, will push her to do things that will signal
to you that you are her top priority. She will be
ready to marry you, than just have fun with you.
She will not be interested in you showering things
on her but rather, she would want both of you to
set your life and future right. She will support
your dreams and visions and help you build up
your Christian life. In fact, she will exhibit the
spirit of humility and you will also discover she is
a precious jewel in a glass jar, reserved for you
alone.
So from today, even if she herself brings s*x, tell
her..."Do not awaken love until it is time." And if
you guys love each other, plan about marrying
and submit your plans to God. He will bless it and
put you two together as one.. Ladies...you should also
read before sending to him
I wish u read all to the last.....our ladies are dying in the hands of some unmerciful men.
S*x has turned many ladies into a mystery of
thinking what they feel for a particular guy is true love.
You meet a guy, he takes you out; He had a
great s*x with you, it was like heaven to you. He makes you feel happy because you enjoyed him so much
you start assuming both of you are meant to
be together as husband & wife.
You start dreaming of your future with him
while he's just having fun. Your feelings for him has blindfolded you from seeing things from the reality point
of view. You find yourself infatuated with him just because you don't want to feel used & dumped.
Sometimes you need to sit down & ask yourself; what do i really love about this guy?
Do I see Christ in him? Is he a guy I can boldly take to my pastor? Can I introduce him as my husband to people who
are responsible? You know the guy is not
capable of being a good husband & father; yet you want to kill yourself because of him. But sometimes you need
to differentiate between what you just feel and what you really deserve. (Deep)
Don't start dreaming of your future with a guy who is just catching his fun. Don't attach a permanent feeling to a temporal person. Don't open up your heart to
a guy who doesn't open his bible. Stop chasing
after a guy who doesn't chase after God.

Never you cry for person who hurts you..... Just smile and say...."
'Thank you for giving me a chance to find and know someone who is better than you"