Miramon Ellis

Do you really think the workforce is a better environment for women than her own home?

When people say fighting for the right to work was a decision that backfired on us, feminists always argue, "It's better than being in an abusive marriage", as if all marriages are abusive by default. For some reason, being happily married is not even viewed as a possibility to them, but that's beside the point...

Is the workforce really better than marriage? Is it really less abusive? Because last time I checked, women ARE being abused at work. Women ARE being harassed by their male co-workers and bullied by their female co-workers. Women ARE putting in extra hours and effort, but watching younger, hotter women get the promotion even though they didn't put in the work. Women ARE being underpaid. Women ARE missing out on valuable time with their children because they have to work long hours and irregular schedules.

Those are just a few things, but all of those things affect our mental health. So I'm not convinced at all that the workforce isn't abusive. Of course every woman isn't experiencing those things at work, but enough are. But as abusive as the workforce is, women still submit to the job environment. They still comply, they cooperate, and they do it every single day. But if men who aren't abusive want their submission, women laugh in their face and treat those men as if they are abusive for even making that request.

See, the workforce is structured to take advantage. It's structured to take more than it gives. It takes advantage of men too, but men are built for hard work. They have more resilience in that department than we do. And when they come home to a feminine woman who comforts and nurtures them, that gives them strength to go back out there and do what they need to do.

But who is comforting and nurturing the single woman when she comes home from a long, hard, abusive day at work? Don't say her children. Children are not built to be our counterpart. They are not responsible for us. We are responsible for them, and the workforce knows that and takes advantage of that reality. It takes advantage of the fact that you need that income to take care of you and your family. And it abuses you along the way because you have no choice but to stay. Sounds familiar?

The workforce that you love so much is exactly what you accuse men of being: abusive, controlling, predatory and toxic...but you still find it worth submitting to. Interesting.💎

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