Aspen and Roses AR

Good morning everyone and welcome to another edition of our Thursday trivia. *"Who was your childhood rival and what were you competing over?"* let's hear you.

🌹 Quiet Reflections 🌹
They carry your voice, your habits, your faith, your flaws.
What you plant today becomes their tomorrow.
Raise them with heaven’s blueprint,
So they grow into God’s design.
Today, remember that influence goes beyond words — it is lived out daily. Let your life reflect the values, discipline, and faith you desire to see in others. Be intentional in what you model, because silent examples often speak the loudest.
Choose consistency over convenience, purpose over pressure, and faith over fear. In time, the seeds you nurture will blossom into something greater than you imagined.
✨ Stay rooted. Stay faithful. Stay intentional. ✨

"A wife constantly fears her partner will leave, even though there’s no clear reason. She experienced abandonment as a child. How do early attachment experiences affect trust and security in marriage"

Tola's father left when she was 7 years old, one day he was there promising to take her to school and the next thing ,he was gone.
She waited at the door but , daddy never showed up.

This broke her mum, who had to raise her and her 2 siblings by her self, days turned in to months and years, Tola never stopped expecting the return of her father.

When she got married, little things will trigger her fear of been abandoned, like one time when her husband came home very late and his phone wasn't connecting, she was so scared she thought he had left her until he explained that it was traffic.

Her husband was troubled about her reaction, though he apologized and reassured her, he still couldn't fathom why she felt that way, until she explained her childhood experience about her dad leaving.