BurdangIna

Magnanakaw kayo ng bilyon,tapos sa aming mga mamamayan ipa kargo ang ninakaw niyo at nanakawin niyo pa!!

Mas gustuhin ko na lang ata maglampara kesa mag ambag sa kakilala kong miyembro ng 4Ps na ang alam lang,maglasing,magsugal at mag-adik!

Kingina namang gobyerno ‘to ah!

My brother didn’t leave slowly…he didn’t get to say goodbye in a way we could prepare ourselves for…the moment I arrived at the hospital,he could no longer talked to me🥹only simple gestures like moving his jaw and his eyelids and his tears as his way to show he hears me.
One moment he was here,part of our everyday lives even we live far away from each other,the next,an aneurysm took him in a way none of us could have truly imagined or controlled🥹🥹🥹

An aneurysm is something many people don’t think about until it happens in their own family.It is a sudden weakening in a blood vessel in the brain that can burst without warning.There are no loud signs,no clear alarms most of the time.It can look like a normal day until it isn’t anymore.That’s what makes it so painful to understand.There was no chance to negotiate with it,no time to delay it,no way to predict the exact moment everything would change…this is an awakening call to us all to really take care of our health.Chronic stress or kahit anong bisyo could trigger the build up of blood clots in our nerves that will soon lead sa ganitong sitwasyon.YOU SHOULD STOP IT RIGHT NOW!

What I keep coming back to is how unfairly quiet it all was…one life,full of memories,plans actually na bibili pa sana ng lupa and will divide it to my siblings so we can live together and will never be apart again…then ordinary moments,interrupted in an instant by something so hidden inside his body….may namumuo na palang isang bagay that could possibly rupture without warning..and for those left behind para sa amin..the silence feels heavier than words can carry🥹something we don’t know when will this pain ends,especially there’s a “certain” weight that adds up to his passing🥹

Now,grief feels like a space he used to fill.It shows up in small moments when I think of something I want to tell him na pwede pa kami mabuo ulit which I always say pag magka chat kami..when I hear a joke he would’ve laughed at,when I realize there will always be a “before” and “after” in our lives from now on

But even in this pain,there is something I hold on to…love doesn’t disappear just because someone’s gone.It stays in the way we remember them,in the way we speak their name,in the way their existence shaped who we are..💚

Beboy’s life mattered more than the way it ended….and even if aneurysm took him without warning,it cannot take away the love, the bond,and the meaning he left behind💚💚💚

Mahal na mahal ka namin🥹💚

A bittersweet 7th anniversary,dadah 🥹💚
It’s sad because the place where our love began and where we found our way back to each other is also where we have returned now because of my brother’s condition.
We should be here to celebrate,but instead we’re here holding my brother’s hands tightly,fighting for his life.

I hope his fight is as strong as our relationship we have built and that he survives 🙏🥹
Our love has made us stronger,and I hope that love and faith will also strengthen him so he can overcome this.
This was the day we reunited,the beginning of our life together when we chose to rebuild what fate once separated.
We’ve been together for 7 years now,dah after 22 years of waiting..and all was worth fighting for💚

Hoping my brother will also win his battle…survive…and that a miracle will happen…that he will open his eyes again and regain his strength.

To all of us, let’s treasure the love and life we have in our hands before it’s too late…

Jad Alipar💚