Choices and Lessons

so I'm in a cocoon right now. Nice analogy. Looking forward to coming out a butterfly instead of a wasp haha

Put into words, that's how I felt and actually ask myself several times: is this the new me or there's a new me when it's all finished? This isn't something that people talk about. I knew women before me survived this and wondered what if I can't. Surely there must have been someone who didn't. Maybe they were labeled something else then.

Anyways, this is not meant to be a full blown article about how I feel as I go through perimenopause so... until then..

On a good note, It's nice to think that I'd actually be the me that I am supposed to be when all these are finished.

This is so real.
This is so true.
This is everywhere.
For most women.
It is no longer a secret. It's screamed all over social media. Famous topic.
But it still happens.
All these information,
All these stories,
All these warnings,
and yet, it still happens.

Mothers still teach their daughters to be convenient by not standing for herself.

Fathers still teach their daughters to stay small by manipulating their wives.

Brothers do not defend their sisters and mothers because they learned to hate needy women.

Boyfriends pursue easy girlfriends because they do not want compromises.

Husbands kept their wives submissive to avoid the responsibility of being a spouse.

And sisters and daughters and friends, they learned t o mind their own business to stay safe.

Well, one thing to watch out for though,
when a woman got tired of screaming
crying
pleading.

They act.

They act.