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Jabir ibn Abdullah reported: The Messenger of Allah (pbuh) , said, “Whoever has three daughters and he cares for them, he is merciful to them, and he clothes them, then Paradise is certainly required for him.” It was said, “O Messenger of Allah, what if he has only two?” The Prophet said, “Even two.” Some people thought that if they had said to him one, the Prophet would have said even one.
Source: Musnad Aḥmad 13835
Grade: Sahih according to Al-Albani
Knowing that this powerful saying of the prophet (pbuh) exists, we still continue to be ignorant in our ways. How dare we look down at our daughters, how dare we disgrace our daughters and how dare we disrespect them for being female! Are you those who would bury their daughters alive if you had the chance and are you those who would prefer the male over the female child?!
Do not forget that you are in this world because of a woman and that woman kept you in her womb for 9 months, endured the pain of labour, breastfed you, changed your nappy and clothed you. That woman is called MOTHER.
When the prophet of Allah (pbuh) can give so much love and respect to his daughter, than who are we to deny or accept the birth of a female child?.
My brothers and sisters, fear the last day; when we will be judged for every action and every word that we utter in this world. Do not run after the decisions made by society, as they aren't always right. You do NOT loose respect for having a female child born in the family; you gain respect!. I leave you with this verse of the Qur'an to reflect:
“And when one among of them receives the glad tidings of a daughter, his face turns black for the day, and he remains seething. Hiding from the people because of the evil of the tidings; “Will he keep her with disgrace, or bury her beneath the earth?”; pay heed! Very evil is the judgment they impose!” (Surah Al Nahl - Verse 58-59.

Very normal! Many use self-talk as a coping mechanism. Those who tend to stay alone, as they may have anxiety when socialising; find that self-talk helps change their mood and also helps them stay organised during the day.
And who said self-talk is only a mental health issue? You may be surprised, but even 'normal' people do it. Self-talk is a powerful tool and can help with a persons emotions and also make them confident. As long as that self-talk is positive and brings structure and motivation in your life; it's all beneficial. But if you feel your mind is being filled with negative thoughts, then it will be good idea to seek help.
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