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BUILDING A RELATIONSHIP TAKES YEARS BUT
DESTRUCTION TAKES JUST SECONDS.
1. Any fool can destroy a relationship. Destruction
comes very easy. Try dropping an egg and see
how easily it breaks. That is how fragile
relationships are.
2. Anything good worth having will demand time
and effort. If it comes too easy, it may just leave
the same way.
3. For a relationship to be successful, you must
be willing to make it work.
4. Forget the fantasies you watch on television,
things don’t work themselves out unless you do.
There’s no ‘living happily ever after’ unless you
make it happen.
5. Love is a great feeling. However keeping a
relationship successful demands more than your
feelings. It takes work.
6. Your emotions can easily lead you astray if you
don’t know what you really want. In a moment of
monumental stupidity, you can allow your
emotions destroy what took you years to build.
Don’t allow it.
7. Every relationship is tested. When you pass
that test, you will enjoy your journey.
8. It takes wisdom to build a relationship or
anything else. If you don’t have the necessary
wisdom to make it work, search for it.
9. Before you explode in anger, consider the fact
that you are about to throw your whole future
away in a few minutes. You don’t have to say
every stupid thing that pops into your head.
Learn to be patient. Learn to be forgiving.
10. Pride goes before a fall. Learn to be humble
and forgive. You are not perfect yourself. Help
and support your partner to be the best they can
be.

Dear girl,
Never beg for someone's attention. Never beg for someone's affection. Never beg for someone's time. Never beg for someone's trust. Never beg for someone's commitment. Never beg for someone's love. You shouldn't have to beg someone to be with you, you shouldn't have to beg someone to stay with you, and you shouldn't have to beg someone to change for you. It's not supposed to be that way and if he cared about you at all, he wouldn't ever make you beg for anything from him. A man who cares about you will show you consistency and no, that doesn't mean he'll constantly remind you of what you mean to him, but you'll just know based off of how he naturally treats you. Everything you're begging for should already be a given and if it isn't, then that's something he needs to acknowledge and understand and if he doesn't, then that just means he doesn't want to give you what you need as his girlfriend and you should stop wasting your time on someone like that. You shouldn't be feeling low enough to beg the person you're with just for him to see how hurt you are, so please don't beg to be cared for because it's degrading and it's demeaning and you are so much better than that. Remember, if you have to beg, he's not worth it. No one is worth begging for.
Sincerely,