Becka Cady

Say it with me: “I allow myself to make a new decision.”

So many times the reason why we feel stuck, trapped, or aren’t moving in the direction towards the things we really want most is because of a decision we’ve made.

This decision may be conscious (within your awareness) or subconscious (not within your awareness).

If you are similar to me, you pride yourself on your ability to make decisions. And its not only your decision you’re proud of it’s your conviction to that decision. Because that’s what makes you honorable, trustworthy, and consistent.

Here’s the cost - because of our strong attachment to our convinction- we tend to hang on to decisions a wee bit longer than we really need to. Am I right?

It can feel like a paradox because on one hand you are respected for your conviction and then on the flip side struggling because it’s that same conviction to your decision that’s leaving you trapped. WTF? 🤷🏻‍♀️

Here’s what happened- you out grew that decision.

That decision worked for you when you made it because it was a reflection of who you were then. Not now. Days, weeks, months or years have gone by and you aren’t that same person anymore, yet you are clinging to that same decision with that same conviction.

And it makes sense you are scared of what to do next because if it’s not this than what?

Your freedom is in your allowance of a new decision. To cling and keep that same decision is blocking your next and that’s why it feels so limiting, so restraining. You are ready for more! You are ready for next!

And your decisions are allowed to change as you change.

Whew! Release that tension baby. 💨

You have permission to grow.
You have permission to want different things.
You have permission to be different than you were a week ago, a month ago, a year ago.
You have permission to evolve.

You have permission to make a new decision.

And I’m with you every step of the way. XO