Ditch The Game

I talk a lot about masculine/feminine energy and how being in your masculine means you act as the calm in the midst of your woman’s feminine “storm.”

I don’t mean a literal storm, but every relationship, at some point will feel an emotional storm.

More often than not the person in your relationship who embodies more of a feminine energy will by nature, be a bit more emotional.

Because that’s in essence what feminine energy is: cyclical, emotional and it’s always changing.

So as the masculine energy you can be grounding for your feminine woman and give her the gift of your presence and stability.

Which has a ton of benefits. ;)

However, as men, we too have emotions.
But, we are conditioned to be the strong one…

We are told to “be a man” and “boys don’t cry…

Our conditioning leaves us stuffing down our emotions and feeling guilty for feeling low.

Learning that I don’t always have to be the calm one and am allowed to emote has been one of the most rewarding aspects of my relationship.

I’m really grateful I have a wife that will allow me to express what I’m feeling when I’m feeling it and be able to handle it in a way that makes me feel heard and understood.

Her support is something I can count on.

It’s one of the greatest unexpected gifts I’ve received from my wife. Because without it, things wouldn’t be the same.

I’d probably find other unhealthy ways to repress my emotions like p**n or alcohol or drugs; simply because I didn’t have a place to go with them.

So think about that as you’re out there trying to find your person. And make sure you find someone who can be your calm in the storm when you need her.

Find someone who can give you the safe space you need when things feel a bit “off” in your world.

It will make a huge difference in your quality of life.

Dating doesn’t end once you’re married!

Just returned from 3 awesome days in Austin, Texas with my love.

Weekend getaways can be a great way to reconnect with your special someone.

Where are some of your favorite weekend getaway locations?