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Putting God first in our relationship🤍

“If we love people based upon their own merit, eventually that person will do something you don't like and thus you will struggle to keep loving them. So putting God first in a relationship is really the only way to keep the relationship healthy and full of love even when you go through hard times together”

Here’s ways we are learning to let God lead our marriage:
+Seek God separately (quiet times- prayer)
+Seek God together (church- small groups)
+Live out God’s commands with one another ( “love one another - honor one another - submit to one another”)
+Allow God to define success and failure ( Society might honor money, power, and influence. Jesus would value love, sacrifice, and kindness.)
+Continually pursue one another (When a marriage is directed by God, both spouses work diligently to make the marriage work)
+Learn from and teach others ( A wise couple always has older mentors helping to show them the way, while also being quick to assist other couples who are seeking assistance with their relationships)

We believe while seeking God doesn’t ensure a marriage that lasts, it is greatly correlated with those who experience a better, more healthy, happy marriage🤍 every day we want to grow closer together

My heart missed weeks like this so much 🤍 Thank God, Covid is done.

When I started this business in 2017 many people didn’t support or understand why I was doing what I was doing. I had people make fun of me, give me negative talk back, laugh at me, ghost me, and much more. But 𝕀 𝕨𝕒𝕤 𝕨𝕒𝕤 𝕨𝕚𝕝𝕝𝕚𝕟𝕘 𝕥𝕠 𝕥𝕒𝕜𝕖 𝕒 𝕥𝕖𝕞𝕡𝕠𝕣𝕒𝕣𝕪 𝕝𝕠𝕤𝕤 𝕠𝕗 𝕤𝕖𝕝𝕗-𝕖𝕤𝕥𝕖𝕖𝕞 𝕗𝕣𝕠𝕞 𝕚𝕘𝕟𝕠𝕣𝕒𝕟𝕥 𝕡𝕖𝕠𝕡𝕝𝕖. I say that because that’s the key when you do anything outside of the ordinary— people don’t know what they don’t know.

Here’s the second key — 𝕧𝕚𝕤𝕚𝕠𝕟 — the opinions of others meant nothing to me because I knew what I knew and I was willing to run the race. I knew if I worked hard enough I could accomplish anything, I knew there would be push back and challenges but what was stronger than that was my why — my want to own my life and not have to be employed forever, to make more that a full time income from my cell phone allowing me to coach/train because I LOVE to, not because I HAD to. My want to have 𝕗𝕝𝕖𝕩𝕚𝕓𝕚𝕝𝕚𝕥𝕪- 𝕠𝕡𝕥𝕚𝕠𝕟𝕤- 𝕡𝕦𝕣𝕡𝕠𝕤𝕖- 𝕒𝕟𝕕 𝕔𝕠𝕟𝕥𝕣𝕠𝕝.

My why was so strong because before I took this leap of faith, I knew what it felt like to work paycheck to paycheck and to be maxed out at a certain income - - I knew what it felt like to dread waking up and just live life going through the motions.

That leap of faith has allowed me to live my dream life for the past 5 years. ℂ𝕙𝕖𝕖𝕣𝕤 𝕥𝕠 𝕤𝕙𝕒𝕣𝕚𝕟𝕘 𝕥𝕙𝕚𝕤 𝕠𝕡𝕡𝕠𝕣𝕥𝕦𝕟𝕚𝕥𝕪 𝕝𝕚𝕜𝕖 𝕡𝕖𝕠𝕡𝕝𝕖𝕤 𝕝𝕚𝕧𝕖𝕤 𝕕𝕖𝕡𝕖𝕟𝕕 𝕠𝕟 𝕚𝕥 - 𝕓𝕖𝕔𝕒𝕦𝕤𝕖 𝕞𝕚𝕟𝕖 𝕕𝕖𝕗𝕚𝕟𝕚𝕥𝕖𝕝𝕪 𝕕𝕚𝕕.

Mexico City 🇲🇽 With some of our new favorite humans

I’ve cried a lot here, we have been laughing a LOT making lots of memories 🤍