Soulful Relating Institute with Tziporah

Make your next date and many dates to come an erotic exploration & expansion into a world of pleasure, connection that you didn’t even know was possible!

Knowing your s$xull preferences, touch style, and erotic nature of what turns you on and off are important assets to loving your lover and yourself well.

In relationships it can become easy to leave your connection to chance or after years of being kissed or touched in ways that no longer feel good in your body you give it up to not being s*xually compatible anymore and never talk about it in a way that is inviting.

What if that wasn't the case. What if knowing what turned up the volume on your turn-on was as easy as learning touch styles, like learning a new language and being able to communicate this language with your lover?

Three Key Points...
Curiousity
Vulnerability
Invitations

Rather than relinquishing your preference, your wants, and desires, talk about them. Turn it into a game, (I will share with you my fav hat game in another post)

If something doesn't feel good or if it hurts, pause. Stopping with grace and love is also an important factor with your lover. Why not say gently “I would love to explore playing with different rhythms of pe*******on. I am feeling a bit dry and sensitive with the hard thrusting, and I would love to feel you slowly enter me, tease me by only playing with the tip of your 🐓 in my wet 🐈.

I like to begin vulnerable conversations like this outside of the bedroom as it often is a safer place for us emotionally. Once in the bedroom in the heat of the moment, it is easier to take things personally, and have more of an emotional charge. (unless you have a mediator/a 3rd as your very own intimacy confidant with you)

Share what feels good about different touch points, what happens in your body when you are touched in certain ways, what doesn't feel good, and how does each feel different in your body? Elaborate on "good" or "bad" and be descriptive.

Vocalizing your desires now becomes another component of turning up the turn-on for both of you.

Now your have an invitation to explore, be creative and get out of a potential bedroom rut.

Just because your lover said yes to an intimate act once does not mean they are obligated to be a yes all of the time.

How does that land for you? I know when we are desiring something so badly it can easily turn into shaming our lover unintentionally when they turn a yes into a no today.

And here's the thing. We all have the right to change our minds. Our state shifts moment to moment, how we feel from what is going on with us emotional or our physical health.

No's can feel so personal, can't they? And they are anything but personal! When our emotional, physical and mental state changes so do what we desire or our availability to play.

You might have found yourself pushing, convincing, and telling your lover all the reasons why they should say yes. I know you have because I have done too!.

Rather than pushing up against your lover's current boundary or no by constantly saying, oh come on, you did it yesterday, or last time we had s*x you were okay with it, ask what would feel good. Redirect the energy darling so you can continue to expand the intimacy and pleasure.

Intimacy is not obligatory and I think you deep down don't want it to be. So get curious, get curious what hearing no triggers inside you, get curious what would feel good for your lover today and talk about it.

xoxo
Tziporah Kingsbury

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