The Behavior Turning Point

I have been saying this for years! Finally!!

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Rethinking ADHD as ‘hypercuriosity’ What if ADHD isn’t a deficit of attention, but an intensified curiosity? A new study explores how reframing ADHD could transform education

Came across this post from years ago and thought I would share it: Yesterday we were at the doctors office (a new doctor to us) and in his attempt to diagnose an issue, he was reviewing the chart listing off past diagnosis and medications. It went something like this, "Ok so, you have an inhaler, you have problems or issues with eczema, Autism, some anxiety,....."

Loki politely but to the point responded with "and underdeveloped lungs, but one question... why is my Autism an "issue"? Because there isn't anything wrong with me just because I am Autistic."

The doctor quickly recognized the misstep and to his credit, stopped, looked Loki right in the eye and apologized saying, "You are absolutely right. I apologize that I misspoke."

Loki wasn't quite ready to let it go and laughingly said, "Because if I have a 'problem' I guess I need to know. But I am pretty sure there is nothing 'wrong' with me."

"Correct, there is not. Again, I am sorry for the way that came out," the doctor patiently responded.

I was sooooo dang proud of my 'kid' in that moment. Advocating for himself. Knowing himself. Speaking up. I didn't say a thing but inside I was doing cartwheels!!!!! The doctor is not likely to forget that interaction soon and learned something no book can teach you!!!!

Need a 2026 Calendar made JUST FOR YOU & your child?! Check out this one made specifically for parents with kids on the Spectrum (ADD/ADHD / Dyslexia / Autism / Behavioral Issues) - pretty cool, huh?!

2026 Calendar for Parents with Kids on the Spectrum – Behavior Tools, Routines, Mood Check-Ins, Goal Tracker & Monthly Tips A Calendar Designed For Neurodiverse Families Created specifically for parents of kids on the spectrum, this 2026 calendar blends structure, visuals, and clarity to support your year. Bring more calm, clarity, and confidence into your home with the 2026 Calendar for Parents with Kids on the Spect...

Here's a resource that's great for teaching kids how to solve their own problems and challenging situations - works great for K-7th grade!

"How Big Is My Problem?" Classroom Poster & Teaching Guide for SEL Skills Transform your classroom management and reduce constant problem-solving interruptions with this "How Big Is My Problem?" Poster + Teaching Guide. This resource teaches students to assess the size of their problem, decide what level of response is appropriate, and take confident next steps, so you ca...

Need a quick reset tool for kids to self-follow when frustrated, anxious, upset, or sleepy? Try this one:

5 Senses Reset Sheet: Self-Regulation Tool for Focus, Calming & Control 5 Senses Reset: Self-Regulation Tool for Focus, Calming & Emotional Control (ADHD, Autism, Behavior Support)Help students refocus, calm their bodies, and return to learning in under two minutes with this simple, effective 1-page 5 Senses Reset Sheet. Designed for quick self-regulation, this pri....

FINALLY got my first offering up on Teachers Pay Teachers!!! It's a freebie, so go download it and subscribe to my store so you'll get notified as I get more resources uploaded!!

*FREEBIE* Tips for Talking to Challenging Kids from a Behavior Interventionist Help your students feel seen, heard, and supported-even in the toughest moments. This resource is designed for teachers who work with students displaying challenging behaviors and want a practical, compassionate, and effective approach to communication. Whether you're in a general education classroo...

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The Behavior Turning Point There might be hundreds of channels on behavior from experts, so why this channel?? First, because YOU deserve to know that you're doing an amazing job from someone who has the expertise of professional credentials and experience in multiple settings, but also firsthand experience with behavior in t...

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Here is my take on autism, though it might be an unpopular opinion!? I don't know - you tell me:

First, it’s not a disability. It certainly doesn’t exist in a smooth collaboration with how we have set up the world, but that doesn’t mean that somebody with autism is broken. It’s our system that’s broken - not allowing those with neurodivergence to find their niche of success easily.

Second, if you really look at the way, the autistic brain works, you start to realize that they use more of their brain, in a more productive manner, than the rest of us. The way they embrace a non-linear space in their thinking is their gift. I believe that it is, in fact, an adaptation. A progression of the human species. We are so stuck in our linear, box, must be style of thinking, and ASD breaks that mold. It is, indeed, there brilliance. And if we look at the world around us, we start to realize that that type of thinking is going to be desperately needed soon… in fact it already is. Look at the world our teenagers are growing up in, look at the shifts we’ve taken in focus, speed of information, relationships between people, interconnectivity. It all requires non-linear thinking.

Third, just because we don’t understand how their brains work doesn’t mean that we need to fix it. We don’t need to know the cause of autism, because there doesn’t need to be a cure.
There’s a reason it’s a spectrum. It’s not a disease. It’s a relatable set of symptoms that we see more and more of, mainly because we’re more aware of it and secondly, because it is how our species is evolving. Let’s stop looking adhd, dyslexia, autism etc., etc., as something to be fixed and start learning from them. Let’s start allowing them to guide our pathway as we move forward as a species and learn learned from their ability to think unlike we do.

The key is making room for them. Making space for what we consider their differences to not just be included, or celebrated, but embraced. 

Autism is An Human Adaptation, Not Something to Be Fixed Autism is not a disability. If you really look at the way, the autistic brain works, you start to realize that they use more of their brain, in a more produ...

Here is my take on autism, though it might be an unpopular opinion. This comes from over two decades of working with students with autism, and having a son who is challenged and blessed by it.

First, it’s not a disability. It certainly doesn’t exist in a smooth collaboration with how we have set up the world, but that doesn’t mean that somebody with autism is broken. It’s our system that’s broken - not allowing those with neurodivergence to find their niche of success easily.

Second, if you really look at the way, the autistic brain works, you start to realize that they use more of their brain, in a more productive manner, than the rest of us. The way they embrace a non-linear space in their thinking is their gift. I believe that it is, in fact, an adaptation. A progression of the human species. We are so stuck in our linear, box, must be style of thinking, and ASD breaks that mold. It is, indeed, there brilliance. And if we look at the world around us, we start to realize that that type of thinking is going to be desperately needed soon… in fact it already is. Look at the world our teenagers are growing up in, look at the shifts we’ve taken in focus, speed of information, relationships between people, interconnectivity. It all requires non-linear thinking.

Third, just because we don’t understand how their brains work doesn’t mean that we need to fix it. We don’t need to know the cause of autism, because there doesn’t need to be a cure.

There’s a reason it’s a spectrum. It’s not a disease. It’s a relatable set of symptoms that we see more and more of, mainly because we’re more aware of it and secondly, because it is how our species is evolving. Let’s stop looking adhd, dyslexia, autism etc., etc., as something to be fixed and start learning from them. Let’s start allowing them to guide our pathway as we move forward as a species and learn learned from their ability to think unlike we do.

The key is making room for them. Making space for what we consider their differences to not just be included, or celebrated, but embraced. 

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The Behavior Turning Point There might be hundreds of channels on behavior from experts, so why this channel?? First, because YOU deserve to know that you're doing an amazing job from someone who has the expertise of professional credentials and experience in multiple settings, but also firsthand experience with behavior in t...