Dr. Amy E. Armada

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✨ Do your kids believe in Santa or the Tooth Fairy?

Have you ever worried about how — or whether — to burst their bubble?

😅 Most childhood development experts agree that parents don’t need to feel guilty about “lying” — since the topic at hand is a fun, magical legend that kids *want* to believe in. When they’re little, you’re simply engaging in their world of make-believe, which is actually a really developmentally appropriate way to bond with your kids.

🤔 BUT if your kiddo is starting to have doubts or outgrow the magic, there is a point where you need to be totally honest. Here’s how to approach it.

⚠️ Whether your kids believe or not, avoid using Santa (or elves, etc.) as a behavioral manipulation strategy for kids (i.e. threatening them with no presents). Santa should be kind and fun, not someone who makes kids feel worse about their behavior.

🔗 If you’d like more tips—including the Qs you should ask yourself if you’re still deciding whether to make Santa part of your fun holiday traditions—check out our link in bio.

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Do you use the anatomically correct words for body parts in your house?

🗣️ Using the correct terms and talking openly about body safety and consent can help your child stay safe and set healthy boundaries!

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