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B**M Beginners Guide: safe words, bo***ge basics
This is your gentle introduction into the B**M scene where we’ll talk about the basic equipment that you’ll need and important aspects like safe words. Not everyone in the B**M community are into the same aspects, some may like spanking while other prefer bo***ge. The key is to experiment until you find something that you and your partner like. Without knowing it you might already have tried some of the elements of this lifestyle like using the body’s sense of touch, limiting your senses by blindfolding or playing control games.

photo of B**M play A "safeword" is codeword that will either completely stop the B**M play or let your partner know the physical and emotional state that you are in. It is usually used by the submissive to communicate with the dominant and to tell them to quit or to reduce or increase the intensity. This illuminates any uncertainty as to whether someone is pleading or struggling just because they find it erotic, or whether they actually want everything to stop. You should always agree on a code that is easy to remember and pronounce and that you won’t use during ordinarily say during s*x. Examples are of words are "red light", "scrambled eggs" or even the word "safeword" can be used. In the case where you are bound or gagged it is always important to establish non-verbal safe words beforehand.

If you are a beginner to this lifestyle and want to test yourself or your partner to see if you are into Bo***ge then one person can hold down the other’s arms during s*x so that the person underneath can’t move. Novices should never use handcuffs since you can lose the key and you can hurt yourself when struggling. Instead visit our online shop and look at ankle cuffs or leather wrist bands. Experienced players can use rope and learn more about this practice in our Japanese rope bo***ge style (Sh***ri) section.

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