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said that unforgiveness is like preparing a poisonous drink for an enemy, then drinking it yourself.

For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive men , neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.
Matthew 6:14-15 New King James Version

can be honest with God. King David was.

Be gracious to me, O Lord, for I am languishing;
heal me, O Lord, for my bones are troubled.
Psalms 6:2 New English Version

But you, O Lord, do not be far off!
O you my help, come quickly to my aid!
Psalms 22:19 News English Version

“ It is notoriously difficult to define evil without some transcendent moral standard of good.” From More Than A Carpenter, by Josh and Sean McDowell

So the law is holy, and the commandment is holy and righteous and good.
Romans 7:12 English Standard Version