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"Forgiving yourself is challenging right now because you are looking at divorce with warped vision... Guilt does not serve you, so you must forgive and let go".

http://psychcentral.com/lib/how-do-you-forgive-yourself/

How Do You Forgive Yourself? | Psych Central Guilt is good. Yes! Guilt actually encourages people to have more empathy for others, to take corrective action, and to improve themselves. Self-forgiveness following guilt is self-essential to esteem, which is key to enjoying life and relationships. Yet, for many, self-acceptance remains elusive be...

A fantastic & enlightening piece by Betsy Ross Coaching: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/betsy-ross-licsw-cgp/it-takes-more-than-a-divo_b_6599138.html
"Building a better co-parenting relationship will provide endless payoffs for you and for your children to learn, grow, and thrive in."

It Takes More Than a Divorce to End the Fighting Divorcing and divorced parents who work toward improving their relationship, can become free from the past faster and create a more stable, productive and enjoyable home life in which to raise heal...