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I’ve already reached out to the police. This is a residential area, not a beach or workout space, and there are families and kids here daily.
I understand it’s hot, but that’s not a reason to ignore basic standards. Please put a shirt on and be respectful of the neighborhood.
Let’s keep things appropriate and considerate for everyone. 😊

Maybe I’m out of step, but I genuinely don’t understand when public appearance stopped being a consideration. I walked into Walmart and saw an entire family shopping in what looked like straight-up sleepwear—pajamas, slippers, oversized clothing, unbrushed hair—the full “just rolled out of bed” look. And nobody even seemed to react because it’s so common now.

To me, it feels a bit careless, like public spaces are starting to feel like extensions of people’s bedrooms. I’m not asking for anything fancy—just basic effort when going out in public.

I took a photo because it genuinely surprised me, and I’m left wondering if standards have shifted this much or if I’m just noticing a trend that’s already normal now.

WHOEVER DID THIS… seriously, what were you thinking??

From far away, it looked like a normal trash can. Just sitting there by the curb like every other one. Nothing weird. Nothing suspicious.

So yeah… I barely clipped it with my car. Thought it would tip, maybe roll out of the way.

It didn’t move.
Not even a little.

Because it wasn’t a trash can. It was basically a rock.
FILLED. WITH. CEMENT.

The impact felt like I slammed straight into a wall. Now my hood is bent, bumper crushed, headlight completely gone… all from something that shouldn’t even be there like that.

Who does this?? Who thinks it’s okay to turn a trash bin into a literal hazard and leave it right where cars are driving??

I’ve already called the police. And if this belongs to you… we’re going to have a serious conversation.

This isn’t “bad luck.”
This is negligence.

Be honest… how is this even allowed?? Would YOU expect a trash can to be filled with concrete??

Unpopular opinion: the quickest way to kill tipping culture is to stop tipping when you dine in.

People always ask why those of us who hate tipping still go to sit-down restaurants.
Simple — because not participating is the only real leverage customers have.

And yeah, I’ve heard all the alternatives:

“Wait for legislation.”
Most of us aren’t lawmakers, and every time it comes up, nothing actually changes.

“Just stay home.”
So we’re supposed to stop living normal lives because businesses won’t pay wages?

“Only support no-tip spots.”
Cool idea… except those are rare in most places.

“Just get takeout.”
So now we’re paying full restaurant prices to eat lukewarm food out of a plastic container — and half the time they still ask for a tip anyway.

Here’s the part nobody wants to say out loud:
As long as customers keep covering payroll with tips, businesses have zero reason to change.

Every tip is one less dollar the employer has to own.
Servers rely on customers.
Owners rely on customers.
And the whole system keeps going because people keep feeding it.

If enough people just paid their bill and stopped tipping out of guilt, the pressure would finally land where it actually belongs — on the employer.

Because once tips stop filling the gap, the system stops working.

You don’t end tipping by participating in it.
You end it by opting out.