Kinkslayer

Welcome to Toxic Tuesday. Every week I'm handing you the playbook. The actual moves toxic people run. Why? Because you cannot protect yourself from something you don't understand. You cannot recognize a pattern you've never been shown.

Now if you read this and take notes for the wrong reasons. That's on you.

Tip 1: Never define the relationship. Labels are for people who need reassurance. Keep it undefined and you keep the power.

Tip 2: Be completely unavailable until they start pulling away. Then give them just enough to reel them back in. Timing is everything. Too much and you lose your leverage. Just enough and they never leave.

Tip 3: Always be their favorite person and their biggest source of confusion at the same time. That combination is basically a drug. People don't walk away from something they can't figure out.

Tip 4: Be the best they've ever had just inconsistently enough that they spend all their time trying to get back to that version of you. Consistency is overrated. Peaks are what people remember.

These work best when nobody knows what you are to each other. Funny how that works isn't it. Almost like situationships were designed for it.
You're welcome. C U Next Tuesday.