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NO GREATER LOVE

A Memorial Day Reflection on Sacrifice, Service, and Gratitude

This Memorial Day, I pause to reflect on the fact that my family came to the United States seeking refuge from persecution for our Christian faith. America opened its doors to us, and in humble gratitude for that extraordinary blessing, I later had the great privilege of serving as an Army officer. Yet, what little I gave in service was far outweighed by what my family and I received in return from the incredibly generous American people and this remarkable nation.

My limited service, however, can never compare to the sacrifice made by those who never came home. President Ronald Reagan once reminded us that freedom is never more than one generation away from extinction. It is preserved because brave men and women were willing to stand in harm’s way, and in far too many cases, give what President Reagan described as “the last full measure of devotion” for this country and for one another.

Today is not about politics, ideology, or division. It is about remembrance, gratitude, humility, duty, and loss.

We honor every fallen American service member regardless of rank, branch of service, race/national origin, or circumstance. From the Revolutionary War to the conflicts of today, more than 1.3 million Americans have died in military service defending this nation. Their sacrifice preserved the Republic through the Civil War, two World Wars, Korea, Vietnam, and the long years of conflict following September 11th.

As Scripture reminds us:

During the Last Supper, Jesus Christ explained the highest form of love: the willingness to sacrifice oneself for others. For too many American families, those words have become forever intertwined with the courage and sacrifice of the men and women whose family members gave their lives in service to our nation:

“No greater love hath a man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends.” — John 15:13
That timeless Biblical truth remains at the very heart of Memorial Day.

President Reagan also warned that if we forget what these men and women did, we will forget who we are as Americans. That may be the greatest danger facing our nation today.

Memorial Day is not merely a long weekend. It is a sacred national moment to remember
Americans who carried burdens most of us can scarcely imagine.

Historian Arnold Toynbee once observed that “great civilizations are not murdered; they commit suicide.” In many ways, remembrance is the safeguard against that decline. When a nation forgets the sacrifices that preserved its freedom, forgets the values for which others died, or forgets the human cost of liberty, it risks losing not only its collective memory, but ultimately its unique identity. Memorial Day therefore serves not only as a tribute to the fallen, but also as a solemn reminder of who we are as Americans and what previous generations sacrificed to preserve for us.

While Memorial Day is first and foremost a day to honor the fallen, I would also ask that we remember the families to whom these brave men and women belonged. Behind every name etched onto a memorial is a mother, father, spouse, child, sibling, friend, or colleague whose life was forever changed by loss and sacrifice.

If you stop and think for just a moment, you will almost certainly remember someone connected to your own life who carried that burden of sacrifice. It may be a family member, a friend, a neighbor, or a professional colleague whose loved one paid the ultimate sacrifice in service to our nation.

For example, our firm’s Operations Manager, Alison Miller, comes from a family with a proud tradition of honorable military service. Her father and grandfather both served this country with distinction, and her grandfather now rests on the hallowed grounds of Arlington National Cemetery. Today, we pay homage not only to Alison’s family, but also to every family that has sacrificed so that others could serve, especially those who have endured the permanent absence, grief, and quiet heartbreak that accompany the loss of a loved one who never returned home.

This Memorial Day, please take at least a few moments to remember those within your own sphere who served and especially those who never returned home. Visit a memorial service or commemoration in your community, many of which are unfortunately sparsely attended. Reach out to a Gold Star family. And if no names immediately come to mind, simply pause in silent reverence and remember the countless Americans who gave everything so that we may continue to live free.

May God bless the fallen, their families, and the United States of America.
President Reagan video:

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/HOzYz1_JAgk