Tough Topics Mom

This comment is a masterclass in victim blaming and misogyny.

Let me break down what you just said:

“Boys/men need help from women” = Men are not responsible for their own behavior

“Dress more modestly” = Women’s bodies cause men’s actions/ Girls bodies cause boy’s actions

“Not be so damn sexual” = Existing while female is provocative

“Then boys will see the person first” = Until women comply, abuse is understandable

This is the exact framework that allows abuse to thrive.

You just watched content about child-on-child sexual abuse — kids hurting kids — and decided the problem is women’s clothing. 🔥🔥🔥

Not the 9-year-olds watching violent gang grape on Pornhub.

Not the complete lack of consent education.

Not the adults failing to teach boys about boundaries and accountability.

Not the men…

It’s the girls and women in tank tops.
It’s the short skirts -

Here’s what you’re really saying:

“Men and boys cannot control themselves, so women and girls must control them by limiting their own freedom, expression, and comfort.”

That’s not safety. That’s just NUTS!

The actual root causes of COCSA:

Early exposure to violent po*******hy (avg age 9-11)

Zero education about consent and body autonomy

Adults who blame victims instead of abusers

A culture that teaches girls to prevent abuse instead of teaching boys not to abuse 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

Abuse is a choice.
Abusers choose it.
Not because of what someone wore.
( Boys and girls are abused! Babies are abused! People in every culture!)

Abusers choose power over respect.

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