Dr. Margaret Rutherford

How often have you tried to tell a doctor what you’re experiencing or what you think might be medically wrong- and the doc says,”Well… that can’t be it “. And especially if you’re a woman! It’s infuriating. And it’s called

Here’s the question today… a listener pointed out that my being white would influence my view of life. And of course she’s right. And… I talk about what’s been very important to me for decades. And that’s what’s termed cultural humility.

SelfWork released its 500th official episodes de this week!! I could think of no better guest than Paul Gilmartin of Mental Illness Happy Hour fame! He talks very openly about his abuse from his mom who had traits. (Trigger warning…) And how he dealt with her emotional manipulation. It was an honor…

When taking responsibility is what you do. When getting the job done perfectly takes center stage - no matter how large or small the job, you can hide behind that busy-ness. When you’re focused on tasks, emotional connection can be avoided. Is this the way you feel? Or the way you see someone else living their life?? I call it reach out!!