Mindful Tactics

Gratitude seems to be the secret weapon in feeling how you want to feel. It seems to be the secret weapon to obtaining what you want also. It is so easy to only look at the negative. Yes, it is harder to find the good in situations, but it is not impossible. Be grateful for what you have. On our worst days there are allot of people that would trade positions.

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I accept. I accept it for what it is. I know what it is and it is allowed to be that. I do not need anything redefined. I do not need any explanations. I do not need any convincing. How am i so sure that's how it was supposed to happen? Because that's what happened. I just accept. Its ok. At worst it may bring up feelings i don't want to have by setting the seed in my thoughts but even in that it gives me the opportunity to change those thoughts. It gives me the chance to catch those seeds going in instead of after they have been digested for who knows how long. If it comes out i define it. Accept it. Move on

I like being the observer. I like that things can happen and they are not personalized. I like that my first question is always why. Why did they say that? What does that mean to me? What are they going through that made them feel this was the way? I also like letting people be who they are. As long as they are not lying to themselves and in return trying to manipulate me i want you to be who you want to be. I am no longer here to save anyone. I still want to help more than ever but the times of not sharing what i feel is important to protect others feelings is over. Becoming an authentic self is allot of work but rewarding when you realize we all create and nothing can make me feel any way that i dont want to feel.