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03/11/2018
When have you heard, “I didn’t mean it like that?” in a relationship?
As the saying goes, we rarely remember what people do, but we do remember how they make us feel!
It’s easy to fall into the trap of defending / explaining why we did or said something that ultimately hurt our loved one.
The problem - explanations don’t change the fact that regardless of intent ... the person in your life you love most was hurt by your words or actions.
You have a choice when this happened.
Either continue standing your ground defending your intent that only fuels the anger, hurt and distrust, OR accept that the reality is the emotion they feel as a direct result of your actions or words.
Maintaining a content state of empathy in a relationship will cause our hearts to be responsible to how we make our loved ones feel.
If you love them, you aren’t wanting to be the cause of pain in their life.
Simply apologize and take note to not do or say whatever hurt them.
That state of empathy in communication will build trust and strengthen loyalty beyond measure.
Men ... take note!
If you feel lucky as hell that your wife, fiancé or girlfriend choose to be with you, then commit to doing just 1 thing each day that can earn her heart and love.
A fulfilling relationship doesn’t happen on it’s own, and love does not grow without constant attention.
To have a woman love you through the good times & bad ... earn her heart and loyalty every single freegin day!
Because when life gets tough, that commitment will be tested.
Don’t ever assume love.
You can’t ever expect your significant other to fill in the blanks.
It is YOUR job men to take the responsibility of making sure your woman feels loved, adored, appreciated and thought of.
Because the hard truth is ... if you don’t, someone else will!
If you’ve committed yourself to being in a relationship or marriage with someone, commit to earning that love every day.
It fosters an empathetic environment that relationships thrive in!
Trust me ... I know first-hand!
This mistake can be fixed with one simple decision.
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01/10/2018
Daily Mindshift:
Focus on what you DO have. That sets the stage for your successful mentality to be that of gratitude and empathy.
These two traits are not natural to the majority yet are instrumental to those who habitually succeed.
Though it is easy to focus on what you don’t have, doing so will facilitate a continual state of lacking whether you t be love, money, happiness, opportunities and more.
Focusing on the results you truly want in your life is not an act of ignoring the current outcomes you have.
Doing so removes the power of your current state to dictate your future.
As we shared yesterday, that which you think about will be what comes about!
Thank you to for sharing these incredible words this morning!
Amber is one of those shining lights and examples of truth who live the mindset!
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