Homagi

My life has taught me the power of solution based thinking.

It’s kept me alive, the shifting from “this is happening to me”, versus, “this is an experience I’m going through”.

A solution, in my opinion, is most fleeting, when you’re fighting for air after something catastrophic hits you. The strength required to be your own voice of reason, when nothing or no one is nearby to anchor you to your base? There are no words to accurately describe that to others.

Misguided and misdirected energy as a result of highly emotionally charged reactions, can cause you to totally miss opportunities to maximize what resources you have. You can squander the little you have instead of investing what you do have into acquiring more. Securing more.

Reactivity is a natural state for many of us. Mastering the art of the “slow response” takes time. Generations of time, sometimes.

I’m leaning into everything I’ve learned, up to this point. I’ve learned to make room for what I don’t know, inasmuch as I’ve learned to make room for my ego to adjust to humility, and vulnerability to trust the help of others who do know.

I’m taking my time. Making my time intentional, as I also make time for compassion, healing and growth.

I’m doing my best, and that’s more than enough.

-LLSW