Solutions Counseling Group

It’s a special day over here at Solutions Counseling Group 🎉

Help me wish a BIG happy birthday to my business partner and friend, Tammi L. Moore, LICSW-S, PIP.

If you’ve ever worked with Tammi, you know she shows up with a rare mix of warmth, clinical depth, and “tell-the-truth” care. She’s the heart behind our Soft Life workshop, the Heal What You Inherited mini-guide, and so much of the steady support people feel when they land at SCG.

Tammi, thank you for the way you love our community, our clients, and this work. I’m grateful to be building this practice with you.

Drop a 🎂 or 💙 in the comments to help me celebrate her today.

– Andre
Solutions Counseling Group

“Learning to love yourself is the greatest love of all.”

A lot of us say we love ourselves…
but are we offering that same love, attention, and care to the parts of us we don’t like as much?

The insecure part.
The angry part.
The tired, shut-down, “I don’t even recognize myself” part.

Do you create a safe space for those parts to exist without shame?
Do you speak to them with patience instead of punishment?
Do you nourish them so they can grow into something healthier?

This week, we’re inviting you to notice:
Where in your life is self-love still conditional?

– Tammi & Andre
Solutions Counseling Group

The Soft Life isn’t a vibe or an aesthetic.
It’s a nervous system shift.

After our Soft Life for High-Functioning Women workshop, one thing kept coming up in our own conversations:

👉🏾 When a woman starts choosing softness, what does support from the men in her life actually look like?

If you’re a woman who is learning to slow down, set boundaries, and live with more ease, we’d love to hear from you:

How can the men in your life support this softer way of living?

Some possibilities we hear in session a lot:
• respecting “no” without an attitude
• not praising you only when you’re overworking
• offering help without keeping score
• listening without immediately trying to “fix” you
• protecting your rest time the way they’d protect a work shift

Men are not the enemy here — many of them simply haven’t had language for this shift.

So let’s put real words to it.

💬 Share in the comments:
If you’re choosing softness this season, what’s ONE specific way a man in your life could support that choice?

Your answer might help someone else find the words they’ve been missing.

— Andre & Tammi
Solutions Counseling Group