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AITA for walking out after my boyfriends sister said she needed to fatten me up if I wanted to be apart of this family?

24f. I started dating my BF "Matt" in November and unfortunately in May I became homeless. Matt lives with his sister and she invited me to come live with them. I moved in at the beginning of June. I have a 1.5 year old son. I work full time and I'm able to bring him with me (I work at a daycare).

Now.. there are some issues that have really struck me as weird since being here. It's like a severe control issue that Matt's sister has. Like.. I breastfeed my son still but only at night because I'm weening him. For the past 3 nights she has been telling me to stay downstairs and have Matt try getting my son to sleep without nursing. So she fully expects me to sit downstairs and listen to my son cry for me because "Matt needs to learn". Help I didn't ask for. If I say I don't want that kind of help, she's told me I'm a helicopter mom and that I need to stop because "he can't be on the tit forever". Or like.. after I had my son I was very overweight and had severe body image issues so I cut coffee, sugar, bread and pasta out of my diet. Well, she thinks I'm too skinny and it bothers her that I'm "afraid of having meat on my bones" because I'm 120ish lbs.

I came home from work and Matt had just left for his shift so he wasn't here. His sister made spaghetti for dinner, which I won't eat. She said something like "I'm going to teach you how real people eat" and tried blaming my mother for me "not liking" certain foods- despite me telling her I eat healthy on my own doing. She said she needed to fatten me up if I wanted to be a part of this family. She made me a plate after I said I didn't want any. The plate was heaping over. Easily a portion size for 5. And then she put it Infront of me and stood there,...