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Today’s message is a simple one which I’ve been taking to heart- Life’s short, time flies, so why wait?

Work-wise, it’s been a productive week for me so far. I’ve been working towards my goals which include new offerings, services, presentations and preparing for 2 upcoming speaking engagements.

The forward momentum this week has lead to good energy, more clients, opportunities and new connections. This is generally what happens when I’m present and engaged.

I notice the same often happens with my friends and clients as well.

In my personal life, I’m also choosing to be as proactive as I can with what I’m hoping to experience and create. And the same has happened- new energy, new connections and experiences. (New growth✨!)
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Why wait if you do not need to? Remember, our time is now! Waiting often creates distance from what we’re hoping to experience and achieve in our lives. Don’t let that distance grow and put things out of reach!

-🐺❤️

This weekend, I celebrated my 39th birthday.

Prior to this, I haven’t really celebrated my birthday since I was 13 years old (with the exception of receiving some texts and enduring a dinner with the closest of my family). None of those were ever truly welcomed or a “celebration”. I would always endure the dinner for their benefit, not my own.

Perhaps it’s from the primal wound of being separated from my biological mom at birth, and/or growing up with low self-worth, or also not celebrating my birthday for the last 26 years, but I’ve never wanted others to celebrate my life. I’ve certainly never cared to.

However, this year, someone close to me expressed their want to show their love for me by celebrating my birthday and encouraged me to look at my life through a different pair of glasses- that I’ve made it through 39 years in this wild and unsafe world, and have not just survived it but have thrived independently and even made an impact in some peoples’ lives around me.

Begrudgingly, I tried to embrace this perspective and allowed myself to feel into it. It was quite uncomfortable at first.

As the day went on, my anxiety and discomfort lessened, my mood improved and I ended up celebrating my birthday by attending a nice concert at Trilogy Sanctuary. I met some great people and had a nice time.

I do believe that life is a special and beautiful gift, but it’s difficult acknowledging how special and beautiful mine has been. For that reason, I made a commitment to celebrate my birthday moving forward.

I’m thankful for the support and love I received on Saturday.

I hope to see you at my 40th!

-🐺❤️

Dearest child,

Welcome to this world. I hope that you create love in it, and embrace life just as it is.

This is a special and unsafe world. It will always transform and evolve. I hope and encourage you to transform and evolve with it!

Be as gentle as the Divine Spirit, and become strong and tough- Warrior’s blood flows through your veins.

This world is special because you are in it. And there are others like you. Find them, fight with them!

Seek inside.
Seek outside.

Transform!

I love you.

-🐺❤️

This evening we celebrated “The One’s” first year anniversary! I’m blessed to be a part of this amazing group of individuals! (There’s like 30 members missing from this photo!)

Being a ProVisors member has connected me with amazing business professionals and industry leaders. Not to mention, I’ve made a great network of resourceful friends.

Big congratulations to Mike, our group leader. And big thanks to him as well 🙏🏾!

Here’s to a great year ahead for Orange County’s, The One 🔥!