A Society In Crisis Project

JLo and Ben's headlines highlight how children suffer when their parents prioritize conflict over resolution. To create healthy families, both parents must take responsibility for healing and stepping up to the challenge. Broken families and blended families often result in traumatized children. The court system and lawyers perpetuate the problem by programming people to believe that children are resilient and can handle the trauma of divorce. This leads to unhealthy adults who repeat the patterns they saw as children. We need more positive family examples to break this cycle. The current system is flawed, prioritizing profit for lawyers over the well-being of families. It's time to focus on healing and resolving conflicts instead of perpetuating them.

There is no doubt that the conflict and chronic stress involved in divorce is one of the leading causes of trauma in young children and a very significant ACE (Adverse Childhood Experience).

So why do people hire these family lawyers that help craft destruction and trauma ? Why are we allowing these family lawyers to keep conducting and inflicting trauma by allowing them to help their clients craft parental alienation? Why do we see family lawyers putting more financial stress on clients, and dropping them
because they are running out of money? These lawyers and family court system have been traumatizing children for decades and putting more stress on families just to play games, and then keep billing multiple dollars to clients, while inflicting financial stress, trauma on them and children ?! Allowing domestic violence and aiding /condoning in those crimes and get paid to help clients commit these crimes ?
Children are in danger!!! What is family law? Family Court? There has been nothing created to help families and children — look at court dockets and see what attorneys are doing — they can’t keep stating or hiding behind claims that their clients are paying them to do this type of practice that is creating trauma on children
— using the narrative the other parent is bad and therapist is easily swayed and the children keep suffering at the hands of the divorce game.

Children of Divorce and Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder - Collaborative Divorce Professionals by Midge Cannin-Schuck Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) is a reaction to a traumatic event. That event could be an accident that a person is involved in or witnessed, a catastrophic event such as the continual news accounts of bombings, wars and plain crashes, or a situation in the family where...