dr.monterroso

Do you have something to heal from that influences how you are with you’re children now?
We often think that we need therapy only when something is happening to us personally. Very rarely do people realize that the situation’s of our past often influence how we interact with people, including our children. Going to therapy to heal so that you can be an even better parent can be a beautiful and difficult experience.
That’s why I created our parent support group. It was more than just Supporting each other through managing behavioral issues or through cheering each other on, it includes acknowledging the past experiences that might be influencing your interactions with your children today.
Have you ever thought of going to therapy?

What’s personal play time? Devoted individual time where a child can relax, play, read, or engage in any activity on their own (safely). This gives you the quiet moment you may need without it being misinterpreted as the child being a “bother.” It’s important to develop this time early so your child increases their sense of independent play. This will make them less dependent on you for entertainment, giving you more time for yourself!

How we speak to children shapes what they believe. Children do not process our words with higher thinking, understanding intentions and potential meanings. They often hear what we say and develop their own meaning which can bleed into their development of self. We want to be mindful of our words and set our children up for success.