Envision Yourself Life Coaching

This is a sign we taped to the wall beside our dining table at home three years ago, and we’ve never taken it down. Even the 3 1/2 year old knows what it says, and he doesn’t read yet. The message was created at a family meeting precipitated by a rude kindergartner and his overly reactive parents. Before we gather for our Thanksgiving feasts tomorrow, take a minute to remind yourself and your family that politeness at its best shows our consideration for others and our recognition that our behavior impacts them. In Hebrew, this concept is called “Derekh Eretz,” the way of the land; in Yiddish, it’s being a Mensch, an authentic human being. No matter how chaotic the kids get, regardless of whining, and despite argumentative relatives, remind yourself that there should be no growling at the table.

Feeling thankful for all the gifts big and little being sent my way. Hoping all of you are experiencing a week full of gratitude, appreciation, and love.