Soul Shine

are not a stagnant, set limit we put in place one time. Boundaries are an ever evolving, alive communication of wants and needs that change as we change - which is a constant process.
The health of our relationships is often indicated by the quality of our boundaries in the relationships.
When we set a healthy boundary, we are not saying that the other person must comply with our boundary. The other person has free will, and gets to decide whether to honor the boundary we establish or not.
Boundaries are not about controlling others; they are about honoring our own needs in the service of our emotional safety, so that we can stay connected in the relationship.