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The Work

He had 1 “failed” marriage, 2 “failed” long term relationships and his current relationship was on the brink of collapse. He sent me their charts in need of an explanation. ‘Send me your mom and your dad’s birth data too, as well as anyone you grew up with who had a major impact on your life,’ I told him.

Before looking at the Rave Charts of his current and previous companions, I studied his parent’s unique designs.

I knew full well that the moment I compared his parents’ charts with charts of his lovers I would see imprints so similar it would appear as though he intentionally went looking for a partner with the closest genetic resemblance to the parent that most conditioned him. So it was.

There were big differences, of course, but the essence of his partners were amalgamations of his mother mixed with a little bit of someone else.

For obvious and not so obvious reasons, I don’t believe we should couple with alternate versions of our parents, although our guardians may possess qualities ideal for a partner.

Just because the words “parent” and “partner” are 99% alike doesn’t mean our parents and partners should be as well.

Walking him through the charts of each one of his partners while juxtaposing them with his mother he began awakening to the awareness that he was so conditioned by his mom he was unconsciously trying to marry her using other women as surrogates, women who were born with predispositions strikingly similar to her own. That’s where the real work began.

Aha!

One night I was on the phone with my mom going over her, her mother’s and her father’s Rave chart. My mom is a 64/63, so she had all of these questions and confusion about why her father and mother did the things they did. Why was she reared the way she was. Why did her mom treat her this way and her dad treat her that way. Why was her sister like this and her brother like that.

One after another I answered them to her satisfaction. I could feel her peace through the phone and the thanks she gave me was worth more than its weight in gold.

By going over my grandparent’s charts with my mom she wasn’t the only one getting some much-needed clarity. I was getting clear on the forces that shaped my mother’s life and the forces that indirectly shaped my own life.

‘Aha! Now I see why my aura is so different from everyone else’s. Now I see why they say traits skip a generation. Now I see why they say I’m similar to my grandfather AND I see why I couldn’t see it nor would I ever consciously agree with them. Now I see why my great grandmother treated my grandfather the way she did. Now I see why, even though I was the first born, my grandfather was more partial to my youngest brother while my grandmother was more partial to me.

Now I see why I wanted to spend time with my Pop Pop but the feeling wasn’t mutual nor could it be mutual. Now I see why he communicated with my mother the way he did and consequently she communicated with me the way she did. Now I see why my mom finally fell for my dad and now I see why their marriage was what it was. So on and so forth.

One eureka 💡 after another I made and am still making sense of, her past, my dad’s past, my grandparents’ lives and my own.

Deconditioning

Experimenting with Human Design means you’ve consciously entered a 7 year process of deconditioning. But how can we decondition without taking a good look at the people who conditioned us the most? The further back I go the clearer I become. The deeper I look into my parents the deeper I look into myself. The deeper I look into their parents the deeper I look into them.

Instead of perpetuating a vicious cycle by repeating the same mistakes as our parents and grandparents, becoming aware of who conditioned us and who conditioned them creates a virtuous circle allowing us to make sense out of the senselessness, replacing ignorance with awareness.

How to use your Rave Chart To Trace Your Inheritance…

Some people don’t know their parents or don’t have access to their data so they can’t deconstruct their own conditioning the way I do. Not to worry. All is not lost. The Rave Body Graph shows you the genetic traits you inherited from your maternal side as well as your paternal side.

What you inherited from your maternal and paternal side is represented in the…

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Which traits did you inherit from your mom and dad as revealed in your Rave Chart? Can you see how those traits they passed on to you are expressed in your life? What other areas of your chart are impacted by those genetic inheritances? Something to think about, isn’t it?

I hope you enjoyed that. All the best!

Art By Diego Rivera

Brian is a 13 year Human Design Specialist, founder of Trading The Transits LLC, and Host of the sapiosexual Body Talk Live. #2027

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