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Post #2 (because words matter)

The absence of one type of abuse doesn't minimize the experience of another type of abuse. Abuse is abuse. And it has lasting effects that not only impact the individual, but also seep into all aspects of their life - work, education and relationships. It looks differently for everyone, but can include: anxiety, confusion, insecurity, hypervigilance, intrusive thoughts, flashbacks, indecisiveness, nightmares, insomnia, panic attacks, unhealthy coping (ie substances, affairs, excessive work), sleeping too much, withdrawn, checked out, isolation, chronic pain, confusing physical symptoms that providers cannot explain, depression, and suicidal thoughts.

When an individual is trying to assess whether or not they have suffered abuse, or are currently in an abusive relationship, they often compare their own experiences to other people's experiences. Too often, they conclude their abuse wasn't actually abuse because to them, it doesn't compare to "how bad" someone else's was. The truth is, those who have been through chronic abuse develop a level of tolerance to the abuse. This allows them to survive and endure, but it also distorts their view of how "bad" it was, because they were able to survive and endure. Whereas when they view someone else's abuse, it may seem way worse, because it is different than what they have survived, and they haven't developed a tolerance to it.

If you have been through abuse or you are still in an abusive relationship and you are suffering the effects (maybe even decades after escaping the abuse), there is hope! You do not have to continue to suffer. There are many effective therapies that help heal the effects of trauma:
Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)
Trauma Resilience Model (TRM)
Deep Brain Reorienting (DBR)
Internal Family Systems (IFS)
HeartMath Biofeedback (HM)
Nature Therapy (NT) See less

There is always hope for healing!!

Post #1

The absence of one type of trauma doesn't minimize the experience of another type of trauma. Trauma is trauma. And it has lasting effects that not only impact the individual, but also seep into all aspects of their life - work, education and relationships. It looks differently for everyone, but can include: anxiety, hypervigilance, intrusive thoughts, flashbacks, nightmares, insomnia, panic attacks, unhealthy coping (ie substances, affairs, excessive work), sleeping too much, withdrawn, checked out, isolation, chronic pain, confusing physical symptoms that providers cannot explain, depression, and suicidal thoughts.

When an individual is trying to assess whether or not they have been through trauma, they often compare their own experiences to other people's experiences. Too often, they conclude their trauma wasn't actually trauma because to them, it doesn't compare to "how bad" someone else's was. The truth is, those who have been through chronic trauma develop a level of tolerance to the trauma. This allows them to survive and endure, but it also distorts their view of how "bad" it was, because they were able to survive and endure. Whereas when they view someone else's trauma, it seems way worse, because it is different than what they have survived, and they haven't developed a tolerance to it.

If you have been through traumatic experiences and you are still suffering the effects, there is hope for healing! You do not have to continue to suffer. There are many effective therapies that help heal the effects of trauma:
Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)
Trauma Resilience Model (TRM)
Deep Brain Reorienting (DBR)
Internal Family Systems (IFS)
HeartMath Biofeedback (HM)
Nature Therapy (NT)

There is always hope for healing!!

ICYMI
Registration is open for the 2026 Veterans in the Fire Service event.

Start planning!!! All you have to do is get yourself there.

𝚁𝚎𝚐𝚒𝚜𝚝𝚛𝚊𝚝𝚒𝚘𝚗 𝚏𝚘𝚛 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝟸0𝟸𝟼 𝚅𝚎𝚝𝚎𝚛𝚊𝚗𝚜 𝚒𝚗 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝙵𝚒𝚛𝚎 𝚂𝚎𝚛𝚟𝚒𝚌𝚎 𝚎𝚟𝚎𝚗𝚝 𝚘𝚙𝚎𝚗𝚜 𝚘𝚗 𝙼𝚊𝚢 𝟸𝟾!

This is a FREE event for members of the US Armed Forces. Two training options are available:

1️⃣Already a member of the fire service? Come train alongside fellow veterans.
2️⃣ Interested in a career in the fire service? Learn what it takes to start a career in the profession and experience live fire, hands-on training.

The entire event includes ample time for fellowship and esprit de corps. 👀𝐃𝐢𝐝 𝐰𝐞 𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐢𝐭 𝐰𝐚𝐬 𝐟𝐫𝐞𝐞? 𝐈𝐧𝐜𝐥𝐮𝐝𝐞𝐬 𝐭𝐫𝐚𝐢𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠, 𝐡𝐨𝐭𝐞𝐥 𝐚𝐜𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐦𝐨𝐝𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬, 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐠𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐭 𝐈𝐅𝐒𝐈 𝐠𝐢𝐯𝐞𝐚𝐰𝐚𝐲𝐬. 👀

𝙷𝙴𝙻𝙿 𝚄𝚂 𝚂𝙿𝚁𝙴𝙰𝙳 𝚃𝙷𝙴 𝚆𝙾𝚁𝙳 𝙰𝙱𝙾𝚄𝚃 𝚃𝙷𝙸𝚂 𝙾𝙽𝙴-𝙾𝙵-𝙰-𝙺𝙸𝙽𝙳 𝙿𝚁𝙾𝙶𝚁𝙰𝙼 𝙵𝙾𝚁 𝚅𝙴𝚃𝙴𝚁𝙰𝙽𝚂!

I took Tim’s class through OV last year & he’s a fantastic instructor!!

🎣 Fly tying class! 🎣 limited spots available! Let us know if you’re in! May 7th and May 13th!

Tim Baer spent four years in the Navy and over 30 years serving his community as a fireman and EMT, and now he’s sharing his passion for fly tying through two dedicated classes. With a lifelong love of fly fishing and plenty of time spent in the outdoors, Tim brings a unique perspective to the craft.
These classes give veterans a chance to connect while learning the detailed art of fly tying. By mixing the structure he gained from the military with the calm of nature, the program helps build both skills and camaraderie among those who’ve served.

It’s hard to believe it’s been one year since we lost Kyle Walder. Not a day goes by that he isn’t missed. Kyle had a way of lifting people up—through his kindness, his passion for life, and the steady strength he brought to every moment.
Today, we remember him with love, gratitude, and the stories that still make us smile. His impact lives on in the people he cared for, the friendships he built, and the countless memories that continue to inspire us.

POSTPONED *First Responder Night*

FRN has been postponed to allow BFD and the entire FR community to honor BFD FF (Ret.) Jim Stokes and his family. We will let you know once we are able to get it rescheduled.

*FIRST RESPONDERS*
First Responder Night - Game Night Edition
April 30th from 6 pm to 8 pm at Eastview Christian Church. Bring your spouse or significant other!