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Horses do not wake up with a to-do list.

They are not standing at the gate thinking, “Right. Big day today. Hope she finally nails that 20-metre circle and remembers her inside leg.”

They are thinking about: Is it safe. Is it predictable. Where’s my herd. Where’s my food. Why is that wheelbarrow looking suspicious. Can I nap later.

That’s it. That’s the full wellbeing strategy.

So when you choose not to ride, you are not depriving your horse of a vital life experience. You are not “letting them down.” You are not ruining their career.

You are, in fact, aligning beautifully with their priorities.

Most days, what your horse actually wants is you turning up without dragging your nervous system behind you like a rattling tin can. They notice everything. The clenched jaw. The stompy footsteps. The breath you forgot to take because your brain is doing its loud dial-up modem thing.

They clock it instantly. And they respond accordingly.

A horse would much rather stand with you quietly than carry you while you’re wound tighter than a baler twine knot.

They would prefer a calm groom over 45 minutes of schooling while the winter wind bangs the arena boards like it’s auditioning for a horror film.

They would rather feel you settle next to them than feel you trying to sort yourself out on their back.

Riding is a human idea. A hobby. A sport. A thing we invented. Horses did not put it on the agenda.

What they look for is harmony. A safe companion. Someone predictable enough that their body can finally unclench.

So when you decide not to ride because you’re tired, the ground is frozen, or your brain is shouting nonsense at full volume, you’re not failing.

You’re being fluent in horse.

A regulated human is infinitely more valuable than a mounted one.

They don’t keep score. They don’t measure commitment in hours ridden. They don’t care if today was a “walk to the field and snacks” kind of day. They dont care if you take them for hack inhand and not on their backs.

They care that you’re safe company. That you don’t bring storms into their space. That when you do ask something of them, it comes from clarity, not pressure.

And honestly? Some horses thrive when riding takes a back seat for a while. Their bodies get a breather. Their minds get space. The relationship stops being about tasks and starts being about trust again.

If you’re showing up kindly, you’re doing enough. If your horse is eating well, moving freely, and living a routine that makes sense to them, you’re doing enough.

And in the quieter seasons, the bond often deepens. Because horses remember who chose stillness over striving. And who sat with them when nothing needed to be achieved. 💛🐎

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Here’s the key most riders miss with half passes: the bend is not something you “make” with the rein. The bend comes from the angle you ride. Just like circles: A big circle = less bend. A 6-meter circle = more bend. Same logic in half passes. A shallow half pass should not look like a rubber horse. 😅 🎯 Step 1: Pick your end point. Point the nose and the inside front leg toward where you want to finish. ✅ Step 2: Finish the turn first. Only when the inside hind has completed the turn and is still under the body… ➡️ Step 3: Outside leg slightly back = forward-sideways. Keep the rhythm and cadence the same. Let the line create the bend, not your hands. ✋ Do you tend to ask for more bend… even when your half pass is still shallow? 👀 #rsriding #classicaldressage #klassiekerijkunst #rienvanderschaft #dressagetrainer #dressagehorse #dressagerider #dressagetips

With our close geographic proximity to ground zero(Waco, TX) for the EHV outbreak, here is some important information.

Thoughts on what I learned last night at the EHV Outbreak meeting

🐴💕 Once they fall in love with horses… your wallet never recovers. 😅 But the lessons, the love, the joy — totally worth it.