Carson Case

TO EVERY young father living it 🚨

There is beauty & grind the moment you start life together. I remember we had Cash for 3 months & made a major life move to a new city. Not too long after Cruz was born. The boys are 12 months apart. What I felt was like many of us probably feel: the fear of not knowing, the headache of sleepless nights, professionally not feeling great enough, wanting to love my wife, build my home & settle things down. I learned quickly that you can only control what you can control. From Day 1 - you as the father are setting an example. We are crafting an aroma, an attitude & a spirit in our home that these little ones are looking to. I’ll never forget in the first two years going on a run one night & bawling my eyes out, crying out to God. I don’t know what I am doing! I am overwhelmed! I still feel like a kid, God?!? Like Lord forreal WTH am I even doing. I remember sleepless nights running to the cribs & laying hands on my boys - praying. Praying for God to move in their hearts, our home, my life & to do work that I couldn’t do myself. I think about fighting for time, peace & quiet & feeling like it was so far off 90% of the time. I think back to crazy boys above running around in diapers smiling at me, jumping, laughing, popping, etc - & the joy in our house just being MOM & DAD. These moments, man. I sit here tonight & think back. The weight of responsibility & still today. With weight on your shoulders. Being honest. Being vulnerable. Praying consistently. Taking care of yourself so YOU can pour out to them - mentally, physically & spiritually. Loving my wife in the best way because TODAY - they see it. They know wassup. The aroma & culture we are in charge of, they are watching every move. Lean in.

When I look back…
I realize how tough it felt (still does today)
I realize mind/body/$$ it felt impossible (He provides)
I realize I needed to become a better man for my boys.
I needed the Lord, His Word & His wisdom.
I realized prayer wasn’t a thing, it was our lifeline. Daily.
Our words & our energy, important to the home.

For any young father or soon to be, enjoy the process & be honest about your leadership. You aren’t alone ❤️‍🔥

Case Fam, party of 5 💖
Outnumbered & blessed 😭
Cash, Cruz, Phoenix …

Ahhhhh GIRL 🩷🩷🩷😭🤯

Phoenix Elizabeth Case NOV 2025.