Events by J.Design

Final headcount time—one of the most important steps in your planning process!
Here’s how to stay on track:
✨ Set your RSVP deadline 4–5 weeks before your wedding
(5 weeks gives you breathing room!)
✨ Expect a few guests not to respond—there’s always some 😅
Use the next 1–2 weeks to follow up with those missing RSVPs
✨ Then give yourself another 1–2 weeks to finalize your seating chart
And here’s my biggest tip 👇🏽
Assign guests to specific tables (not individual seats).
This helps you stay in control and ensures every guest has a place and every seat is accounted for.
Create a simple spreadsheet that includes: ✔️ Table numbers
✔️ Guest full names
✔️ Meal selections (for plated dinners)
✔️ Dietary restrictions
✔️ Special notes (highchairs, wheelchair access, etc.)
By the time your final count is due to your venue and catering team…
you’re organized, prepared, and stress-free 🙌🏽
Happy planning! 💖

So your daughter decided she wants a quince court… damas and chambelanes 💃🏽🕺🏽
Now what, mom?
It’s time to tap into those organizational skills—because if you leave it up to the teens… it will turn into chaos 😅
As soon as she selects her court, start gathering parent info:
Names, phone numbers, and emails for the court and their moms.
Create a group chat and introduce yourself to the moms.
Let them know their child has agreed to be part of your daughter’s quince.
Why does this matter?
Because moms will help keep their kids accountable to the commitments they’ve made.
Then clearly and kindly communicate expectations from the start:
Event date
Costs (suit rentals for boys, dresses + heels for girls)
Choreography is covered by you - but let them know practices will typically be: ✔️ Once a week starting about 10–12 weeks out
✔️ Possibly increasing to 2x/week as the event gets closer
Setting expectations early = fewer dropouts later 🙌🏽
And trust me… that’s something you definitely want to avoid.
Happy planning! 💖

✨ TODAY is the day!! ✨
I’ll be at the Blumen Gardens Bridal Bash and I would LOVE to see you there! 💍
If you’re planning a wedding for 2026 or 2027, this is your sign to come out and get inspired!
🌿 Tour this beautiful venue
💐 Meet 25+ amazing vendors
🎶 Get ideas, ask questions, and start bringing your vision to life
📍 Blumen Gardens – Sycamore, IL
⏰ 11:00 AM – 2:00 PM
🎟️ $5 admission
Come walk the space, meet some incredible talent, and say hi to me while you're there! 🤍
Let’s start planning something beautiful ✨
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