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Positive affirmations don’t usually (never) work. But there is something to this one, it may actually make sense.

Imagine if someone handed you a transcript of everything you complained about today. Would you be proud reading it - or shocked?

It’s unrealistic to say “I will NEVER complain again.” Because you will. But one goal is to be aware, to start noticing.

The challenge isn’t to “never complain.” The challenge is simply to notice and be aware, and possibly: complain less & appreciate more. Apparently it leads to total personal transformation - wouldn’t it be interesting to try?

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𝐒𝐡𝐞 𝐬𝐚𝐢𝐝: “𝐀𝐥𝐥 𝐦𝐞𝐧 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐢𝐝𝐢𝐨𝐭𝐬!”
And despite technically (and not technically) being a man,
I had to agree with her.

Her argument: instead of approaching her romantically, her man could only act on a level of an emotional caveman. Trying to touch her, not saying much - just sort of grabbing & hoping for the best. And to her, it felt annoying. Pushy. Ridiculously non-romantic.

But as eternal idiots, sometimes men don’t know exactly how to say “I love you. I want to be close to you...” - instead they try to show it with their behavior.

That doesn’t mean that women should accept that behavior as normal. But sometimes women could ask: is he being a careless moron… or is this simply the only way he knows how to express closeness and connection right now?

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