Lillia Things

I’ve wanted to post this update for months now, though I don’t even know where to begin. Cadin and I are no longer together. We’ve been separated since August, and while we briefly attempted reconciliation for the holidays, he’s back in California.

I spent Valentine’s Day with my mother, and children, in Pullman. I got to visit my friends and be with my eldest daughter. I’m so immeasurably proud of my children. They all amaze me in their own unique ways.

Cadin and I are trying to figure out a reasonable parenting plan, but for the time being the babies are with me full time.

I guess I’ve been hiding from the public eye and scrutiny of the internet. I have big feelings over the separation and eventual divorce, but suffice it to say I’ve deemed it a necessary, if unfortunate, outcome for peace in my home.

Thank you, from the depths of my being, for being a part of my family and my personal story through the years. You’re all amazing and I hope to continue to be a part of this corner of the internet.

Today is Us Day! Yes. It marks the monthly celebration of our togetherness. We’ve been together for 5 years and 11 months as of today. :) next month we celebrate our dating annivUSary and the month after our wedding anniversary. Happy Us day, my buns!!! 🥰