Triumph Stables Riding Academy

I am so Thankful all of my students abide by these!

We spend a lot of time talking about what instructors owe their students such as good lessons, safe horses, clear communication, and a program worth paying for. All of that is true but the relationship runs both ways and there are a handful of things every riding instructor has every right to expect from the people they teach - regardless of age, level, or how long they have been in the program. Here is what that actually looks like...

1. Respect the schedule
Your lesson time starts when it starts. Not when you finish tacking up. Not when you finally find a parking spot. Not ten minutes after you were supposed to be mounted because you got caught in traffic. An instructor who has back to back lessons cannot absorb your late arrival without it cascading into every lesson that follows. Be ready and be on time. If life genuinely gets in the way, communicate early and not at the moment the lesson was supposed to begin. Last minute cancellations and no shows are in the same category. Your instructor may have pulled a horse from turnout, set up the arena, and reorganized their entire morning around your lesson. Treat their time the way you expect them to treat yours.

2. Pay on time, every time
Riding lessons are expensive and nobody knows that better than the instructor who spent years and significant money developing the skills they are now passing on to you. While riding might be a hobby or a luxury for you, it is a business for your instructor. They have the same bills, the same living expenses, and the same need for a reliable paycheck that every working professional has. Pay your invoice on time without being chased. It is a basic professional courtesy and it matters more than most students realize.

3. Respect the expertise
There is no shortcut to becoming a good riding instructor. It takes years of riding, training, teaching, continuing education, and a level of dedicated investment that most people outside the industry never fully appreciate. When you walk into a lesson, bring an open mind and leave your preconceived ideas at the gate. The student who arrives already convinced they know how it should be done makes the instructor's job significantly harder and their own progress significantly slower. Trust the process and the person who built it. You hired them for a reason.

4. Show up mentally not just physically
Riding is not soccer or swimming. It is a complex physical education that happens on the back of a living animal and it requires your full attention every single minute of the lesson. Your instructor is prepared to give you their best teaching so come prepared to receive it. Leave the work stress, the family drama, and the distracted scrolling in the car. The horse needs you present and so does your instructor. Frankly so do you because a distracted rider in an arena is a safety issue not just a teaching one.

5. Bring your best effort
Not perfection, not natural talent, but effort and a positive attitude. A genuine willingness to try the thing that feels uncomfortable and work through the thing that is not clicking yet. Riding is one of the most extraordinary privileges available to anyone who has access to it and it deserves to be treated that way. Your instructor is bringing their best to every lesson so bring yours in return.

None of these are unreasonable expectations. They are the basic professional courtesies that make the instructor student relationship work for both people in it. A student who shows up on time, pays promptly, respects the expertise, stays present, and gives genuine effort is a student every instructor wants in their program for years.

Be that student and your riding will reflect it.

What an Amazing read!

As riding instructors we spend a lot of time managing the gap between what new students expect riding to be and what it actually is. Most of that gap could be narrowed significantly with one honest conversation before the first lesson ever happens. So here is everything I wish every new student and every new riding family walked in already knowing...

1. Riding is harder than it looks
This is the one that surprises people most. Watching a good rider looks effortless but it is not effortless. It is years of muscle memory, feel, balance, and body awareness built through consistent work over a long time. Your first lessons will feel awkward and uncoordinated and that is completely normal. Every rider you have ever admired felt exactly the way you feel right now when they were starting out.

2. The horse is not a bicycle
It is a living animal with its own personality, its own opinions, and its own good days and bad days. It does not always do what you ask the first time and that is not always your fault but it is always your responsibility to figure out the communication. Learning to work with a horse rather than on top of one is one of the most valuable things riding teaches and it starts from the very first lesson.

3. Progress is not linear
Some weeks you will feel like you have jumped forward three levels. Other weeks you will feel like you have forgotten everything you learned last month. Both are completely normal parts of learning to ride. The students who improve consistently are not the ones who never have bad lessons but they are the ones who show up anyway and keep working through the frustrating ones.

4. One lesson a week is a start but not a program
A single lesson per week gives you exposure to riding. Two lessons per week builds skill significantly faster. The riders who progress quickest are the ones who ride consistently and frequently enough that their muscles and nervous system have time to develop real memory around what correct feels like. If budget allows for more than one lesson per week it is worth it.

5. Your position will feel wrong before it feels right
Correct position in the saddle feels deeply unnatural to most people at first. Heels down feels like you are pushing your foot through the floor. Sitting tall feels like you are leaning back. An independent hand feels like you are doing nothing. Trust the process and trust your instructor. The things that feel strange now become automatic eventually but only if you commit to doing them correctly rather than defaulting back to what feels comfortable.

6. The time around the lesson matters as much as the lesson itself
Grooming your horse before you ride. Learning to tack up correctly. Understanding how to read your horse's body language in the cross ties. This is not the boring part before the real lesson begins. This is horsemanship and it makes you a better rider than an hour in the saddle alone ever will.

7. Bad rides happen to every rider at every level
Including the ones you look up to most. A bad lesson does not mean you are not cut out for this, it just means you are learning something hard and doing it on the back of a living animal that is also having a day. Come back next week and it will be different.
Your instructor is on your side.

8. Every correction we give is in service of your progress and your safety
We are not pointing out what is wrong to make you feel bad but we are pointing out what needs to change so you can get where you want to go faster and more safely. The students who improve fastest are the ones who hear a correction as information rather than criticism and apply it without taking it personally.

9. Riding changes you in ways you will not expect
The patience it builds, the confidence that comes from communicating with an animal ten times your size and being understood. The resilience that develops from falling short of a goal and coming back for it anyway. The community you find at the barn. None of that shows up in the first lesson or even the tenth but it will show up at one point. For most riders it becomes one of the most significant things in their life and not just what they do on Tuesday afternoons but part of who they are.

If you are a riding instructor share this with every new family who walks through your gate. If you are a new student or a parent of one - welcome. You picked something genuinely worth doing!

What do you wish someone had told you before your very first riding lesson?

Wishing everyone a Happy Holiday Season

We invite you to join the fun! New spots are now available just in time for the New Year. Gift certificates can be purchased for all your holiday needs.

Triumph Stables Riding Academy is delighted to announce the appointment of MaKayla Helgeson as our newest Riding Instructor member. Below is a brief introduction. To schedule a lesson, please call 260-410-8996.

Hello! I am pleased to introduce myself and thrilled to join the Triumph Stables team. As an Indiana native, I developed a passion for horses on my family's small farm north of Fort Wayne, where I spent considerable time. Thanks to influential mentors, my passion evolved into a career, notably during my time at Canterbury High School. In my senior year, I pursued advanced equine education at a renowned dressage facility. Following my graduation in 2020, I opted to leverage my experience in teaching and training while exploring the medical aspect of equine care as a veterinary assistant at a leading equine surgical center. With over 20 years of riding experience, I bring expertise in hunters, jumpers, western disciplines, and basic equine medicine. After a brief hiatus, I am excited to resume teaching. I look forward to meeting you and guiding your growth in a safe, supportive, and enjoyable environment, drawing from my farm upbringing and experience as a small horse farm owner with my two off-track thoroughbreds, Gatsby and Niko, and my pony, Nemo.

What an Amazing time we had at Camp! Lots of fun and laughter.