Phoenix Rising Family Medicine

CORE VALUES + BURNOUT TYPES

Warrior Burnout:Constantly revising values.Always optimizing, improving, pivoting, striving.Growth becomes another form of pressure.

Healing:Slow down.Solidify what truly matters.Stop rebuilding your identity every week.

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Fortress Burnout:Rigid attachment to values.“Protecting peace” becomes isolation, control, and inflexibility.

Healing:Practice openness.Let values guide life instead of becoming walls against it.

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Winging It Burnout:Hasn’t fully stopped to define core values.Life becomes reactive, impulsive, or scattered.

Healing:Slow down enough to ask:“What actually matters to me?”Build structure around those answers.

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Ease & Flow:Values become embodied instead of performative, rigid, or unclear.

You stop:Proving.Protecting.Drifting.

And start living more intentionally.

If you tend to start out as a rockstar…
highly productive, energized, all in—
and then a year or two later, you’re exhausted, frustrated, and wondering what happened…

You’re not the problem.

You might be a highly sensitive person.

Highly sensitive people process more, feel more, and notice more.
Which means they can often do a lot—and do it really well.

But they also burn through energy faster.

Think of it like this:

Highly sensitive people are like smartphones.
High functionality. High output. Constant processing.

But the problem is—
we expect them to perform like flip phones…
same level of productivity, but somehow on a single charge for a week.

That’s not sustainable.

And that mismatch?
That’s where burnout starts.

The research on highly sensitive people—pioneered by Elaine Aron and expanded by voices like Jenn Granneman—shows this isn’t a flaw. It’s a different nervous system strategy.

So if this resonates with you—
you don’t need to fix yourself.

You need to learn how to recharge differently.

I’m starting a series on this.

The Four Stages of Burnout Recovery:

1. Rest — “Stop the bleeding”

This is the stage people try to skip—and it’s the one that makes everything else possible.

* What it is: Physical, mental, and emotional recovery
* Why it matters: A burned-out brain can’t reflect, regulate, or make good decisions
* What it looks like:
* More sleep, less stimulation
* Pulling back from non-essential demands
* Letting yourself be “unproductive” without turning it into a problem

Reality check:
If someone is still running on fumes, everything they “learn” in later stages won’t stick.

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2. Reveal — “Get honest about what’s actually going on”

Once there’s a bit more capacity, you can start seeing clearly.

* What it is: Awareness without judgment
* Why it matters: Burnout isn’t random—it’s patterned
* What it looks like:
* Noticing where your energy is going (and leaking)
* Identifying burnout patterns (overdoing, isolating, inconsistency, etc.)
* Seeing the roles you’ve been playing (rescuer, achiever, avoider…)

Key shift:
From “What’s wrong with me?” → “What’s been happening to me?”

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3. Regulate — “Stabilize your system”

Now you start building skills to actually feel better in your body and mind.

* What it is: Nervous system support + emotional processing
* Why it matters: Insight without regulation just turns into overthinking
* What it looks like:
* Breathwork, movement, grounding
* Completing stress cycles (not just pushing through them)
* Learning to come back to baseline after stress

This is where people start to feel hope again—not because life is perfect, but because they’re less reactive and more steady.

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4. Revise — “Change how you live so burnout doesn’t keep happening”

This is the rebuild stage—and where real transformation happens.

* What it is: Behavioral and lifestyle redesign
* Why it matters: If nothing changes, burnout comes back
* What it looks like:
* Setting boundaries (time, energy, relationships)
* Aligning with values instead of expectations
* Making different choices about work, commitments, and pace

Hard truth

Core Message

* Curious rebels feel called to something more (write, build, create)
* But they get stuck because of 3 core fears

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The 3 Fears

* Fear of losing health / burning out
* Fear of losing financial security
* Fear of doing it alone / being rejected

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Key Reframe

* These fears make sense
* But they’re often based on one model: hustle culture
* Hustle culture says: sacrifice now, maybe live later
* That’s not the only path

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What We Do Differently

* Health is not sacrificed → it’s the foundation
* Money is not ignored → it’s approached strategically, not impulsively
* You don’t do it alone → community + shared thinking

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What Happens at the Meetup

* Conversations with people who think deeply
* Space to question default paths
* Practical ways to move forward without burning out
* Support without pressure
* No cost



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