Moritz Kerkmann Hood

Our Darkness Retreat space in Northern California

Women often feel that they are too much for wanting to improve the relationship and hold back therefore with expressing desire to their men for couples work.

The same goes for their desire.
Women clamp down on their desire around their partners and husbands. Better never say too much! He is already doing more than when he wasn’t meeting me at all. So I need to be content with the effort he is putting in now even if that’s 5 percent of what I asked for.

Now let me tell you from a male perspective what this does to us when you safe us from your desire.

It keeps me from being brilliant!

I can get lost in work and work, day in and out.
Men often don’t have the awareness that their wellbeing and connections get lost when we are swamped in our fix it, work it mindset.

It is a blessing when my wife expresses that she desires me to sit down for dinner and take my time and place my attention on her.
Even if that might sting like an inconvenience in the face of the workload.

I get unbalanced and my woman’s desire has the power to pull me back into balance.

If she withholds because she doesn’t want to inconvenience me too much, I am lost!

Your desire as a woman is a huge contribution to a families and relationships well being!
Without your desire, we run cotton dry!

We need your desire even if we are at first grumpy about the changes we need to make!

What’s even worse than feeling grumpy is the resentment we feel when she is not expressing herself. And we have no idea why the heck she is grumpy then.

The reason why so many men are checked out in their relationships and are not showing up fully is because you have not expressed your desire.
They need that wake-up slap of desire.

Get uncomfortable, ask them for what you want, they can handle it. Stop packing your man in boubble wrap!

When men get jealous or upset about what She is doing,
Its always a communication she is attempting

Women are masters in inflict feelings into men.
Women think its effective but most of the time its lost in translation and I see many relationships break apart because of this.

When she tells you how good she is treated by another man,
She is telling you for a reason.

When she said something that hurts your feelings, she knew it would hurt but she did tell you for a reason.

We men, think the intent is malicious but its not.
If the intent was Selfish, she would not bother with you but just move on to that other man.

She is telling you because she is trying to wake you up to something
The intention is generous, the way she delivers may be selfish.

In my work I help couples change the delivery but the intention is Brilliant.

What she is trying to wake you up to,
Is how you show up in relationship with her.

Again, its not about her, its not selfish
But she is guiding you to how she needs you to show up for her to open

Trust me, you want what she is guiding you towards.
In your safe haven of demanding her to meet you, there is no seggs, there is no fire, there is no erotic pleasure available.

She is right, you need to rise to her

Intimate Leadership Mensgroup

We meet again September 8th and we have a few spots open

In this group you learn Relationship skills like:

✨How to Deal with Complaints?
🔥How turn your Partner on so She innitiates more S*x
✨How to Realy stand up for your Self in your Life!
🔥How to feel more space, Harmony and overall energy in your ✨daily experience
🔥How to End conflict
✨have functional Boundaries
🔥Erotic Leadership

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