Dan Kimbrough - Educator

2025 was a year of lessons.

And as we learned from Malice this year, "...there's an L in every lesson."
(L = loss, if you didn't know).

There was a lot of loss.

Rights were lost. Families were lost. Dignity was lost. Pride was lost. Power was lost.

I lost money. I lost business. I lost friends. I lost family. I lost sight. I lost hope.

The lessons...

The lesson was that with a simple signature, you'll learn the difference between allies and all lies.

The lesson was to vet your circles. Friends, family, business, all of them. Have the hard conversations and believe people.

The lesson was that words apparently do matter. Watch carefully who changed which ones.

The lesson was that there are no safe zones, and we need to proceed accordingly.

The lesson was rest, because this isn't a sprint. It's a never-ending marathon. The notion that the end was ever in sight now feels as foolish as it sounds. I thought one day we'd live in some post-racial, gender, homophobic, ableist (you get it) society where respect for identity and space exist, and we see each other as whole humans, and that's the norm. We'd look back on the war and violence and lack of humanity we have today and wonder how we survived.

Then I drove to Selma, and I witnessed the burial of a civil rights foot soldier, a foot soldier who literally put her life on the line for many of the rights we're being stripped of today. In her lifetime... In my aunt's, mother's, and so many others' who already fought these battles in their lifetime.

I dreamed of a world where the battles and victories of the past were the pillars of a better society, a world where Stevie Wonder's "One Day at Christmas" actually came true.

2025 killed that dream/hope. A lot of what I lost in 2025, I'll find a way to recover, but not the hope, or at least that hope.

2025 left me tired, tired in a way I wish on no one. The weight of working toward an idyllic, read - perfect, society is heavy, and doing so when the foundation is being ripped from under you is insane.

So I'm not. That work, that work can be someone else's burden.
While in Selma, I also saw what it was like to bear witness to history and say we won't be forgotten. You won't sweep us under the rug. You don't get to forget what you've done. You won't forget that our story is your history, too.

I saw that while this fight is long and frankly may never end, there's more than one way to fight. That when you get tired, look around, and remember your why. That the work you put in today is what others will use to keep the fight going.

In the end, what I take from 2025 is the goal of this fight, if you choose to take it up, isn't to end injustice. The goal isn't to see equality reign supreme. It's not some post-identity society. And so the hope of that future, its death and loss, hurts less. Because why mourn what never was?

The real goal is and always was to be able to maintain the fight. To always stand up. To always speak out. To always show up. For each other, always. Because no matter how far we go, no matter how much progress we make. Even if we ever make it to that idyllic society... the goal is to simply hold the line. Remind us, constantly, of where we've been and what it took to get to where we are. Even if it isn't far. To always tell the truth of history and to protect what we've fought and lost so much for. We have to hold the line. We have to be able to hold the line. Because if we don't...

I'm sure there will be plenty of lessons and thus losses in 2026. But realizing that this is the fight, this is what we're called to do. Not winning the battle, but making sure we never stop fighting, makes it a little easier to swallow.

"To know how it ends
And still begin to sing it again
As if it might turn out this time..."
--Hadestown

Here's to 2026.
Be Better.

The lack of emotions I feel for this woman, her husband, or anyone who offers then any iota of anything.

Said what I said.

"For decades, campaigners have rightly made the moral case for tackling health inequality. This report now adds an unignorable financial argument.

Professor John Appleby of the Observatory states that further research will reveal “not only the value of health losses to individuals, but the monetary losses to the NHS and the economy.”

The conclusion is clear: failing to address the health costs of racism places a significant economic burden on the healthcare system and hinders the nation’s broader economic growth.

Investing in equity is an investment in a more efficient, sustainable, and effective NHS."

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