Raising Ralph

June 11th is more than just a date on the calendar—it is the day I became a mother. The day my world shifted in the most beautiful, unexpected, and life-changing way. Today, my son Ralph turns 15, and we celebrate not just the passing of time, but the incredible journey of love, resilience, and joy we’ve shared together.

From the moment Ralph entered the world, he became the center of mine. His presence brought with it lessons I never knew I needed—how to be compassionate, how to see the world through a lens of empathy, and how to advocate fiercely for inclusion. Ralph has taught me that happiness isn’t measured by milestones or norms, but by the light you bring into the lives of others.

It hasn’t always been easy. Ralph has faced his share of challenges—navigating life on the autism spectrum, dealing with epilepsy, and facing a world that doesn’t always understand him. But each morning, he wakes up with joy radiating from his spirit. His laugh, his hugs, his endless requests for kisses—they are constant reminders of what truly matters.

There are days when life feels overwhelming, when the weight of the world creeps in. And then I look at Ralph—smiling, loving, living—and I ask myself, “Why am I down, when I have so much to be thankful for?” Ralph is my daily reminder to show up, to give my best, and to never stop reaching for joy, no matter the circumstance.

To know Ralph is to love him. He has this magical way of touching lives, of making people feel seen and loved just as they are. His laughter is contagious, his smile lights up rooms, and his heart is as big as they come. He is, quite simply, unforgettable.

I will forever be grateful to God for choosing me to be Ralph’s mother—a title that is my greatest honor. Today, we celebrate our beautiful boy. My son. My sunshine. Our special gift to this world.

Happy Birthday, Ralph. You are loved beyond words, and we are all better because of you.

There you have it! First day of high school for my boy! It's hard to believe he is in the 9th grade this year.God has shown us favor through this journey and has protected us along the way. I pray HE continues to put a hedge around him and let him soar to new heights this year. I'm forever humbled by this special boy. I wish all parents, kids, and educators a great school year!